Cant make someone be there that doesn't want to be. Its your choice and decision. I feel everything will work out for you. It has for me. And congratulations. We're here to support you if you need it.

Praying for you... Everything happens for a reason ... It will work out for you and your baby best. Pray about and remember you have the ultimate father Jesus and he will take care of both you because he is both of you guys father... 🙏🏾 don't worry my love it will work out .... By the way congratulations on being a mommy 🍼 @milly18

Sounds like you have someone willing to be little ones daddy, so don't worry! Even if you didn't, you could still do it! Congrats on your baby, and happy and healthy 9 months to you :)

Thank you @zeemom

@milly18, lucky you !! God bless him and God bless the baby ...

Yes and now i have someone willing to be a father to a baby that is not even his and he said he has been in love with me for awhile and he is like my bestfriend @zeemom

@milly18, yup I know the feeling he is a better man . Mine was tryna force me to get an abortion. But when I told him I made my decision already he Broke up 😊

I told him hey if you wanna be a part of the baby's life be here for me he said no so i said ok @zeemom

@milly18, same thing happened to me. And I decided what I wanted more my kid. Or the guy. I choose the baby and here we are !! Almost done with my pregnancy

Ok i will @tomoiee95

It takes more than dna to be labeled as a "father". This might sound really ghetto and insensitive but he's just a sperm donor at this point, but when the time comes take his ass to court for that child support and move on.

Thank you so much @dixie1994 @hermommy

Congrats!! Seems to me like the baby will have a dad even if the "real" dad isn't around. just give him a few days to process it, and if he doesn't come around, then don't stress about it :)

awww <3 there you go girl that means more then the other man being a flake you have someone that loves you and the baby

But i have a guy willing to step in as a step dad for the baby he is absolutely nice and gentle and he was there when i took the pregnancy test he was like ima be a dad and i started crying @hermommy

we are here if you need us, alot of women are very helpful <3

@hermommy, i am happy but scared i know i dont need him

I left it alone and now he is with another girl @miasmommy165

stay strong the thought of a baby creeps alot of men out at first just try not to push the subject and talk about it for a few days and then Re try the subject and see if things change.

first off congratulations, :) second you dont need that coward girl you got this