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Emily Vielmas

I just took a pregnancy test and it came out positive !!!! The dad wants nothing to do with it... I just need some…

I just took a pregnancy test and it came out positive !!!! The dad wants nothing to do with it... I just need some consulting people right now😞

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lashellg

dylishaМама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

Cant make someone be there that doesn't want to be. Its your choice and decision. I feel everything will work out for you. It has for me. And congratulations. We're here to support you if you need it.

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christinaantoinette

Christina Mitchell

Praying for you... Everything happens for a reason ... It will work out for you and your baby best. Pray about and remember you have the ultimate father Jesus and he will take care of both you because he is both of you guys father... 🙏🏾 don't worry my love it will work out .... By the way congratulations on being a mommy 🍼 @milly18

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c00kiemomster

ElizabethМама дочки (1 год)

Sounds like you have someone willing to be little ones daddy, so don't worry! Even if you didn't, you could still do it! Congrats on your baby, and happy and healthy 9 months to you :)

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mamacita101

RaimatВ ожидании первенца

@milly18, lucky you !! God bless him and God bless the baby ...

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

Yes and now i have someone willing to be a father to a baby that is not even his and he said he has been in love with me for awhile and he is like my bestfriend @zeemom

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mamacita101

RaimatВ ожидании первенца

@milly18, yup I know the feeling he is a better man . Mine was tryna force me to get an abortion. But when I told him I made my decision already he Broke up 😊

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

I told him hey if you wanna be a part of the baby's life be here for me he said no so i said ok @zeemom

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mamacita101

RaimatВ ожидании первенца

@milly18, same thing happened to me. And I decided what I wanted more my kid. Or the guy. I choose the baby and here we are !! Almost done with my pregnancy

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tomoiee95

AsiaВ ожидании первенца

It takes more than dna to be labeled as a "father". This might sound really ghetto and insensitive but he's just a sperm donor at this point, but when the time comes take his ass to court for that child support and move on.

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

Thank you so much @dixie1994 @hermommy

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dixie1994

Dixie EmmonsМама сына (2 года)

Congrats!! Seems to me like the baby will have a dad even if the "real" dad isn't around. just give him a few days to process it, and if he doesn't come around, then don't stress about it :)

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missing268user

missing268user

awww <3 there you go girl that means more then the other man being a flake you have someone that loves you and the baby

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

But i have a guy willing to step in as a step dad for the baby he is absolutely nice and gentle and he was there when i took the pregnancy test he was like ima be a dad and i started crying @hermommy

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missing268user

missing268user

we are here if you need us, alot of women are very helpful <3

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

@hermommy, i am happy but scared i know i dont need him

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milly18

Emily Vielmas

I left it alone and now he is with another girl @miasmommy165

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miasmommy165

TabithaВ ожидании первенца

stay strong the thought of a baby creeps alot of men out at first just try not to push the subject and talk about it for a few days and then Re try the subject and see if things change.

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missing268user

missing268user

first off congratulations, :) second you dont need that coward girl you got this

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I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did…

I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.