so I know a lot of mom's go to doctors a lot by themselves and everything especially single mom's.…

so I know a lot of mom's go to doctors a lot by themselves and everything especially single mom's. My thing is that I'm not a single mom. Daddy wants to go to every doc appt (when I was pregnant and to all of his boo boo's appts). I see it as it is a parental dutie. Am I wrong? His boss gets mad when he says "Delos has a doctor appointment this coming Tuesday morning. I need to work in the afternoon". He works at a gas station. She huffs and puffs. Then my MIL gets all defensive and says that she went to almost all appointments by herself. I understand that but my husband isn't his dad. He wants to be a part of every moment of his kids life. My in laws think they can just buy stuff and just throw money at us and that will solve everything. We aren't raising our kid that way. We are being there for him physically and emotionally. Rant over.