Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
So this morning my fiancé and me went to my folks for Christmas. On our way there we had to stop at his ex fiancé house to drop off an ornament we found of hers when we were setting up our tree. I was upset because I really didn't want to see her especially on our first Christmas being engaged and our daughters first Christmas because she has been mean about me in the past. Now I come to find out that she has been asking him about our daughter and stuff like that. Do I have a right to be upset or no??
*Rant My fiances mom called him lastnight (shes never been there for him) and was like you didnt tell me you had a baby on the way ,he said i did you just never listen ...she said oka well i guess youll tell me when its born so we can get a paternity test because im not going to be involved if its not yours i told him he can call her back and tell her mfn ass she wont be in my sons life and no she wont know when hes born and that she can kiss my ass (excuse my lauguage) and that i dont respect her she didnt raise my fiance his grandma did ,she always talking to him crazy, and talking about him to other family memebers Am i wrong for saying that?
missing108user·
Мама троих детей
Nope I'd flip the fuck out & probably kick her ass after I had the baby for saying some stupid shit like that!
Cynthia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)
the dog isn't their kid she doesn't need tot talk to him about shit
Cynthia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)
Why can't he just change his number so she stops trying to talk him
Paris·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
i would be suspensious too, i mean being pregnant with hormones definitely doesn't help.... but always talking to an Ex, and than she ask a personal kinda inappropriate question. i would be ready to flip.
Andrea·
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It just made me so mad that she would go & say some stupid shit like that then I tell him & he just laughs & says its funny, like wtf is funny about that? @aek91 & I do agree with that I'm mad he's even talking to her in the first place @madibrice
shan·
its boundaries that should be placed. Women are sneaky and if you give them any kind of leverage they will take it and use it to their benefit. Now i am personally still cool with all of my ex's and if I see them out I will speak but there is no communication via text, phone calls, social networks etc
Paige·
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Nope I wouldn't let that fly, he wouldn't if it was the other way around. Plus if my boyfriend's ex said something about the baby not being his he better stand up for me or we would be having a serious talk about what he really thinks.
Paris·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
totally agree @prettiladi_shan
Andrea·
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I agree with that, when he mentioned that, that's what triggered me like she doesn't even know me & I don't know her so why would she ask something like that @parbear
& there should be boundries I even told him how would he like it of I was still talking to one of my ex's @prettiladi_shan
Andrea·
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I did have to bring it to his attention more than once & he just laughed but I found nothing funny about the situation so when he comes home we need to have a serious talk about it @crazytoast
shan·
Men act like they can handle it if we did what they did but they would totally flip out. Its always a double standard
Paris·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
yea, pregnant or Not Your feeling how you should feel and he is totally wrong.
missing108user·
Мама троих детей
It's not funny in the slightest! My so knows not to try to even look a a bitch he dated! Especially talk to them! I mean lastnight I flipped out about a number I put in his phone lol he was so confused but he knows that's not right! & just like I wouldn't go talking to any of my exes. Except for the one I need to talk to (because we have a child together) but if I had the choice i wouldn't talk to his ass either! Honestly a dog the bought together isn't a good enough reason to text or call him at all.
Andrea·
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it just makes me think twice about what's going on with him. he has a lock on his phone so I can't really go through it, I don't have a lock & I even tell him he can go through my phone cause I have nothing to hide I don't talk to anyone, much less my ex's I only answer texts or calls if its him or family @aek91
missing108user·
Мама троих детей
My so doesn't have a lock on his phone & I never ever go through his phone cause I have no reason but lastnight I just did just for shits & giggles. I'm the same way though my phone has no locks & the only people that call are him my mom & brothers or the doctor but I mean he knows that. I would think twice too thought because it just sounds fishy why is your phone locked what are you hiding?!
paisleysmom·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
yea if I'd catch my bf talking to an ex and there's no reason for him to like as if there are no kids between them then he'd be an EX , I don't play that bullshit.