My shower is the 27th . Should i make the rsvp date Monday the 15th which is 1 week and 5 days ahead…

You have to be pushy so you don't buy too lil or too much stuff.

Lol i know but i dont wanna be to much of a bitch you know @mira423

@leiibaaaby, lol girl sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do! My mom played the bitch role for my shower lol and I had a great turnout

girl I know the feeling. me personally, I made it a month prior. I'd just sent out a friendly reminder asking ppl to please rsvp to know how many ppl will be there

Thats what im trying to do is send the reminder but not sure to do it the 15th or 20th . @amaresmama

the 15th

I'm handing my invites out towards the end of March. my RSVP date is April 5th and my shower is April 24th. I made it so early so they have time to save the date. if its too close, some people plan a week ahead. also cause it gives them time to shop around. and you can make sure to have enough food and drinks.

Okay cause majority of the people already rsvp . so I planing for about 120 . so far i have about 90 people that have rsvp and 12 maybes and 30 people that still haven't responded so i just want to send out a reminder sayin i need a yes or no by this day. @aidensmommy

so have them RSVP by the 13th.

because like you said, you already have 90 people coming so you're going to make sure you have enough for those 90. those 30 should RSVP asap, if not I guess it's their loss if they show up without rsvping and there's no food for them.

I'm having my food on a first come first serve basis.

My invite says food will be served at 2pm so if they're not there thats their lost lol but im sure 75-80 will show out of the 90 you know how people are but thanks for the input . @aidensmommy