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babychloe
Samantha·Мама дочки (9 лет)
so im not really sure where to start with this but i kinda need to get it out so its not bubbling inside of me...
so my parents passed away so pretty much my whole life ive lived with my grandparents 2 aunts 2 cousins and my brother and sister. all of the "adults" growing up.. no matter how much they deny it.. chose favorites. and ive kinda been stuck alone bc i was closer to my mom.. the 2 years she was around so i dont really remember it. my brother is the baby so my grandmother adores him and my 2 cousins. and my aunt prettymuch raised my sister so she gets specialtreatment.. so like i said i got the shit end of the stick. my sister had a baby 5 months before i did. they gave her the biggest room in the house. i had to go to the basement. then when my nephew came my brother went down to the basement( us 3 shared the room my sister has now) when i couldnt move alot bc i was really pregnant they decided to give me half the living room. when they realized it wouldnt work out my grandmother still to this day gives me shit bc now she has no living room. and im litterally going around picking up things people leave laying around and while im sleeping people come and sit in here and talk bc they say its the living room and i have to deal with it. i get no privacy which is a big reason why i am not breastfeeding. my family is cuban so they are loud and obnoxious.
so main reason for this long post is my grandma and aunt refused to let my sister put her son in daycare until hes over a year old. my daughter is just about 3 months and i told my aunt that ill probably have to put her in day care bc of the tanf meetings i have to go to and stuff and she litterally said yeah you should do that.
i feel like it shouldnt bother me because im an adult. but this is supposed to be my family. ive dealt with depression and ive been pushing myself away from them and they always bitch and say that they love me and all this bullshit but then they come around treating me like shit.
08.02.2016
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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
Ok and NP, I hope everything works out for you hun @babychloe
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babychloe
Samantha·Мама дочки (9 лет)
yeah.. its not really important just wanted to kinda get it out since i dont really have anyone totalk to and i do not want to put it out on fb lol.. but thanks ladies.. ill figure it out. @alexusasia420 @zealous
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zealous
zealous·Мама сына (8 лет)
damn sorry to hear that but dont worry u will get your own just takes time
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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
wow I feel for you hun but have you checked around your area? Maybe they have some type of mommy and baby shelter that will help you get on your feet, provide shelter and financial assistance. It isn't the best choice but its a good start until you can make it on your own @babychloe
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babychloe
Samantha·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@zealous, im not with my babys father. hes a dead beat.
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babychloe
Samantha·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@alexusasia420, i was trying to. but my ex.. babys father took all the money i had saved which wasnt alot and wasted it on booze and cigs for him and my ex bestfriend who he tried to fuck. and iwas with him until i was 6 months pregnant and the whole time he was telling me he was working to get us a place to live for when the baby come but he was messing with this bitch who he is with now. he hasnt even asked what his daughters name is let alone see if shes doing ok. and by the time i left him no one wanted to hire me bc i was 6 months pregnant.
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zealous
zealous·Мама сына (8 лет)
u should try to move out stay hopeful maybe u could move in with your baby father
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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
@babychloe,
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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
(not sure if you want feed back and if not you can delete) but I honestly feel that if you knew how they were treating you the time you were pregnant you should have been getting ready to get out of there. Your family is wrong to do such things they are but its also your responsibility to figure things out on your own.
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