Why Should We Respect Mothers' Choices on Circumcision?
I'm going to say this just once lol
stop downing us mothers, who choose to circumsize our sons. If you want to that's your choice, if you don't want to that's your choice. we dont do it for our sons, to have a pretty penis its our choice. ask a man before you ask Google. if you want your son, to keep a little turtle neck over their penis then thats fine, but some of us don't for our reasons, and that's fine as well. I won't down a mom for not having the procedure. They're are so many men, who had the procedure as a baby and are alive and well. remember...its YOUR BABY. so be respectful of other mother's wishes. that is all
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I feel u love @emily was just venting. its nothing wrong with a little turtle neck.my child's father had one and I was fine with it.
I completely agree. Everyone has different preferences, I was just saying that there is no reason to get upset about other people opinions because everyone does things different. @tlokitabella91
@emilyg, I guess its one thing to say "its wrong" vs "its my decision" all I've said is some of the side effects not saying all.men will have aids or uti's but they're more prone to.but if you dont want to thats oK .I didn't want to at first but I made up my mind. and some moms will make u feel that way because of a decision u have made for your child.not me personally but I'm a mother who is circumsizing and I will take it personally because I've chosen to do the procedure. and we spoke from.personal expericences.not just saying what we researched or read.but either way I won't come on here saying to not circumsize is wrong PERIOD.your baby your choice thats all im getting across@emilyg
it was your choice love @faithfulness88 and I don't down nobody for it. so don't feel like u made a mistake. I was scared to at first but I finally decided I want to
But no one was trying to make people feel bad. Someone asked for opinions & they were given. If hearing facts about circumcision makes you feel bad or makes you feel like a bad mother, that's your own conscience. Especially if that opinion was a generalization & not pointed to any specific person. Stating facts is not preaching. 👆🏻👆🏻 you guys were just preaching why people should circumcise & that doesn't make me feel bad.
I didn't circumcise my son and I don't regret that I didn't. But I have to admit that sometimes he says it itches on the Tio and because of the extra skin. So I don't know in like stuck lol because it's a good thing in a way. I'm scare that later on as he gets older he would have to get it done. And it's something I could've done when he was little. He is 10 now.
but ppl take offense to turtle neck but I didn't mean it to be insulting but that's what it sounds like when ppl talk about moms like me who choose to. but by all means its your baby and I don't judge because I didn't want to at first. but yeah like u said every mom and child is different. I just read a lot of comments saying how its wrong and blah blah blah.and it just pissed me.off a little @loganandmckennasmomma
Yeah lol . I wouldn't put him through it now especially. He's almost 4. Lol but there isn't anything wrong with cutting either. I haven't seen post like that but I agree with you ... Kinda like Breast feeding and bottle kinda thing ig. Every mom and child is different . People shouldn't judge no matter what your decision to do with your child. It doesn't hurt either way.
but I'm.not offended.I'm just upset that women and a lot on here preach how its wrong and try to make us feel bad. I'm speaking my mind just like you and other women.@emilyg, that can make someone feel like a bad mother honestly lol
& that's fine, no one was trying to change your mind. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but when someone doesn't agree with yours you shouldn't get offended. Everyone does things differently. @tlokitabella91
it looks like a turtle neck lol my child's father isn't circumsized either but its not like I had a problem with his but I choose to do it. and honestly I was on the fence of getting it done. but I don't go on here saying your nasty or wrong to not get a boy circumsizrd. too many women on here do it and its not right @loganandmckennasmomma
ask your doctor about the real facts and the real truth behind circumcision. thats all im saying. you would be surprised...
Like I said ... Wasn't downing either . But have to think of moms who haven't cut their sons .... I'm sure my son is gonna be perfectly fine bc I didn't cut him ... Not one thing in this world with not ... To me by you saying " it looks like a turtle " is kinda being somewhat judge mental of uncircumcised. I personally asked the nurses she told me there's no medical reason to cut them .. As long as they are clean shouldn't have to ever worry about infections or anything . I don't see anything wrong with either myself .
it looks like a turtle neck love I was just comparing it to a turtle neck. @emilyg I have my own reasons to why I chose to
And just so all you ladies are aware, saying that you want to circumcise your child because you don't want his penis to look like a "turtle neck", is saying that you're doing it for cosmetic reasons.
its not a problem love but that's what it looks like that's all I'm saying.if u want foreskin OK and if I don't ok.but its not right to down a mom who chooses it and make us feel like we're hurting our baby @loganandmckennasmomma its your baby and u have every right to what u want
My son isn't circumcised ..... I've never had a problem with his ... If you want to yours but don't make it sound like it's nasty . I personally think if the dad is you should and if he isn't you shouldn't. Especially if he's gonna be involved in the potty training.
every man in my family and family friends have been circumsized as babies and have had no problems at all after
exactly !! @isabellasmommy2015 and most men regret that they weren't I've done my research through men not the internet lol
my uncle was not circumsized as a baby so as an adult he had to be because when he would have sex it would cause him a lot of pain but every other man I know has had it done when they were babies and they are fine
my brothers are and are glad my mom made that decision. I'm just sick of women playing "doctor" its just easiet for men yo contact HIV,std's and uti's uncircumcised. not saying they will have it but its easier . and I know men who wish they were.they font even want a sleeve over their penis.not all but most @kbmjdm
not being circumsize can also make them have health issues when they get old and have infections set up my grandfather didn't have his done and he said he wish he had a say so in it when he was born because u have to keep it clean or infections can sit on it and that its the nasties looking thing u can imagine at old age
I didn't get my son circumcised and while we were in the hospital all the nurses and our family kept questioning us about y we chose not too and they were trying to make us feel bad the entire stay and I had to curse them out. It's my baby and my decision not theirs and I can do what I want.