So my mother in law has been going on about how excited she is for her first grandchild but I have a daughter and we're in the process of my boyfriend adopting her. He's been around since she's been born. His mom goes on about how much she's going to spoil and love her new grandson and it makes me mad because I can tell now that she's going to make a difference with my kids. I don't know if it's mean but as long as she does that, I don't want either of my kids around her. My daughter doesn't deserve that.