It really bothers me that my mother in law calls my twins her babies. She tells me take care of my…
It really bothers me that my mother in law calls my twins her babies. She tells me take care of my babies and can't wait to hold my babies and stuff like that. It just really bothers me. I'm a first time mom and these are MY babies! Yes her GRANDbabies but not her babies. Then she says oh you have three dogs, you love your dogs, so when the babies come I can have the babies. I'm like wtf? Who says that? Then she says oh you're having twins so I can have one. I'm just like dude. Seriously? I don't want to be mean or rude but it really bothers me she says that kind of stuff.
Autumn·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)
yup made me soooooo mad too!!! She called my daughter OUR baby and I said no MY baby!!!
Brianna·
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@autumnrae, glad I'm not the only one. My hubby makes me feel like I'm being overly sensitive sometimes and I'm just like nah, I don't like it at all.
Autumn·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)
yup my fiance was like babe be nice I was like no this baby is not at all hers it's mine!! @twinscomingsoon
Kaylee·
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same here but with only one child n first time mom she says the exactly same n even with the two puppies not three
Brianna·
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@kaylee13, makes me feel like she thinks I won't be a good mom and I find myself resenting her. I don't want to have bad feeling toward her but she's gotta stop! These are her second and third grandkids. If it was her first I mean I might understand but my babies will be her second! Even my parents who don't have grandkids don't say things like that! @autumnrae I wanna stomp my feet and throw a tantrum! Mine mine mine! My babies! But that wouldn't be very grown up lol
Rachel Dollarhide·
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my in laws do the same! drives me nuts. I wanna say "are you carrying this baby, getting fat, puking every morning???" noo you're not so it's not your baby! lol
audra·
Мама четверых детей
ik how u feel my oldest sons grandma was like that n i told his dad 2 get her away from me but he wouldnt finally i told her off i was quite rude about it but i never liked her anyways lmao
Brianna·
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@haetleymama, yeah I can't be rude. I'm not trying to interfere with my husbands relationship with his family Im too passive aggressive. I've already set ground rules regarding his parents. He is well aware of what I will allow and what I won't. They are my kids period. I just won't be rude to her about it.
Brianna·
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@rachh40, right! She had her babies! These are mine and I have to suffer through the pregnancy.
Danielle·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Ohh don't even get me started lol it's funny how everything hanged once kids are brought into the picture.
Danielle·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
*changes