So I doubt he will even want to help set up anything. All he is ever interested in is trying to find alone time so we can have sex and I'm over it. I have a five year old and he has two kids of his own. He won't talk about our plans or anything for when the baby comes.

My boyfriend says he's happy or whatever too but he gets mad that I spend my own money to get the things I need/want for the baby instead of using things that are being passed down from his gramma and used through like 8 babies. He's known from the get up that I wanted my own stuff and he hasn't contributed at all.

Yea he'll say he's happy , but when I urge him to get things for the baby or set things up, he just seems to have no interest or just changes topic. I just gave up on asking for his help. 😞 just hope he realizes soon and is excited. He always says it's hard for him to show his feelings so I'm hoping it's just that.

My BF is happy, but hasn't started getting truly excited until just now (9 months) because he knows our daughter will be here soon and he keeps saying he can't wait to set everything up for her. It's about damn time!