Leave his ass simple

its not worth it. 2 wrongs dont make a right. if he cant get it together then its time to part ways.

@abelsmama, because he has done it to me so many times

no dont do it just leave him find yourself someone better, and that will kill him, him seeing you happy

That alone shows how much he loves you. For 1 hes making the choice to cheat, and 2 to be ok w u cheating on him? You cant possibly love someone and be ok w this. Theres love and then theres just being content in a situation cause its convenient for someone. You both need to evaluate this relationship. It isnt healthy at all.

Why do you guys need to be even?

@crunchymomma, @babywhale @abelsmama but he said he wanted me to cheat on him so he knows we're even

returning the favor won't fix the problem.. an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
talk it out, take counseling together, if y'all can't fix your problems together as a couple, then accept he won't ever change and call it quits.

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. I think it would cause more drama and problems. I would just leave his ass.

Cheating on him is not going to make you feel any better. Either you accept that he cheats on you and allow it (and there are people that CAN do that...) or you end things and move on.