I'm in a very similar situation. My ex has a new girlfriend and at this point it's only been a few months but he's been pushing me and his family to meet her since the beginning. He says he wants me to comfortable with our unborn child being around her. I don't want to meet her and don't want my child to be around her but like you I don't want my baby girl to miss out on having a father. We were together for 7 years and even after we broke up we were very good friends. He was there for my appt, classes etc, until he met her. Pisses me off. And she already has her mindset that she's gonna be her stepmom. Hell no! In your case they've only dating a few days. She has no business being around your kids and he's an ass for bringing her around.

i knew his chick after me cuz it was his first baby mama i trust her now my daughter is 6 but it took many many many yrs

when my daughter was a baby i didnt let her go to her dads till she was able to talk i didnt want anything to happend i a didnt know about it

@kaseylynn, oh girl. I would have gotten a nurse and been like please escort this Escort outta my room!!!! lol

@littlefootloove, I wanted to but I'm trying not to cause a scene . I just told his dad that you have some nerve bringing your hoe here .

Just wait that out that doesn't sound like that "relationship" will last to long but in the meantime I would definitely request that you guy's son not be around that kind of confusion.

Oh Hell No @kaseylynn I would have jumped outta that bed and choked a bitch with an IV cable!! she got shit fucked up thinking she can say "step son" after 3 days.

@brycesmommy, that's what I said . He has his mind that they are in love and they are going to get married . 😂😂

Yeah I don't really know her . My son is still young he needs mommy and daddy not mommy daddy and some girl . She claims she will be his step mom . When he had a seizure last week she showed up at the hospital which I felt very disrespected about . I asked why she was there she had the nerve to tell me she was checking on her step son . They had only been together for 3 days at that point .

2 weeks? Girl no your son doesn't need to be exposed to just anyone. Hell after 2 weeks your child's father barely knows her!

@kaseylynn, Oh NoNoNoNoNo, 2weeks into being with this girl and he wants to put your babies life in danger because this lady could have never been around a baby in her life and you never know what could happen. my honest opinion I wouldn't trust it.

I messaged you @kaseylynn my phone likes to not tell me when someone replies to my comment. lol

oh its very appropriate! No judge will look at you crazy for not wanting another women to be around your child.

@lottlefootloove, yes since they have gotten together which is only 2 weeks . He's barely even seen his son because he wants him to go to his girlfriends house and I won't allow it .

That's what I honestly feel like they are playing house. I want to request that at court but I don't if it's appropriate to ask for something like that.

but I understand where you are coming from with the "I don't want him to miss out on the babies life" but would he really choose his new current girlfriend over spending time with his children?!

you're stronger then me, I would put it to were they can't have another women around your baby unless y'all are married. but my man and I have an agreement that neither of us will "play house" with someone else and our child if we happen to break up.