Honestly... sometimes I think some people need to remember that if you don't have anything nice to say... just don't say anything at all. This is a support group. We are here to support each other. There are a lot of first time moms and there are others who have experience. Venting about others concerns is not the way we should be acting. Everyone feels pregnancy differently and invalidating one person's struggles to make yours seem worse is the opposite of support. This app is great but some of the members don't seem to be ready for children yet.
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I always feel huge in the third trimester but the brain fog, sickness, and anxiety lessen. I love having a baby that I can always feel too.
This pregnancy has been my roughest (early on) thanks to my early gestational diabetes and progesterone I'm taking. If I complain now; it doesn't mean I don't know struggle! I had a complete placenta previa, GD, and preeclampsia that progressed to HELLP with my daughter. I spend the last month of my pregnancy living in the hospital antepartum before having a 35 week preemie. Thankfully most women will never live through that. I have lived through struggle; that doesn't mean that I can't vent about this pregnancy too!
@newmomma87, I agree! I block as many as I can. We all have different opinions and feelings. I prefer the 2nd and 3rd trimesters for example. 2nd is the easiest of the three. 3rd has its struggles but everyone acknowledges that you're pregnant and you're closer to meeting your baby! 😍
oh okay cause I'm just in my feelings tonight bad so sorry if you do see that post :/ just really hurt right now I know this isn't the place to share what I said cause I HATE venting I just couldnt hold it in anymore and needed to get it off my chest cause it hurts me alot thinking about it but I do agree with you 100% @spicelives
@mommy.to.be.041016 This app is about venting and sharing things and reaching out for help. :)
ive blocked a few who think they k now everything there is to know and make me feel like being a first time mom my opinions didnt count...im just thinking if they want drama stay on facebook ya know..and one inparticular would post nasty comments to me then delete them which i found out by other members..ao i agree 100% with you...we need to build each other up and teach each other not put others down
No honey! If anyone can see what I wrote it's probably not you. I'm not talking about little complaints. There have been members on here that are downright aggressive.
I hope this isn't about what I said if it is I'm sorry I'm just super depressed I can't even sleep ! @spicelives
Ps but my last posts are exactly my point. We write how we feel and experience pregnancy. I'm just shocked at how many people lash out at others. I value everyone's input from the TTC to the past due date members!