So he tells me he doesn't want the baby... I don't believe in abortion so I say u don't have to be involved I won't force u. Won't ask for anything from u. To u this baby doesn't exist. Well he gets mad at me and calls me petty bc I'm taking his right to take care of his child away. I don't understand, I thought I was giving him what he wanted. Well now I am considering getting an abortion just to not have to go through this anymore. I want my baby, but I don't want this.
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As long as the baby has you loving him/her it will be okay. You will love that baby more than anyone else ever could. He may come around in the end but if he doesn't that's okay, you're not alone. My baby's father was mad when I told him I was pregnant by I told him I was keeping it no matter what. I'm completely ready to do it on my own but he came around and now it's me that doesn't want him around. My first few months were so rough because we were fighting all the time but it's so worth it because my baby girl will be here this week and I'm already so in love
went through the same thing with my daughters father, he said all kinds of things bout my child , he was demanding that I get an abortion and he was too sure that this wasn't his baby , so I simply told him that I don't need him in my childs life or mines , and so do what's best for you . I think if I would have aborted my daughter I would be living my life in regrets every single day.
Honey, this is the best advice I can give. Do what YOU want. Don't base your decisions off of what he wants. It doesn't matter because if he leaves you, YOU are going to be raising that baby and if you can see yourself being a mom, then go for it. It will be hard, but very rewarding I am sure. Do what YOU WANT. Not what he thinks, don't listen to what he says...listen to your heart.
I have two girls and wasn't planning on more but I found out I was pregnant and my husband tried to force me into an abortion. It was the hardest 2.5 months of my life, but I stood my ground, and now I'm almost 5 months. I told him I'd leave and raise our 3 on my own if I had to and eventually he changed and he's came to a realization that he didn't want an abortion either and is in love with our growing unborn baby too. I briefly considered it too cause it was so hard not being able to tell anyone and having to fight with him everyday, but now I'm beyond glad I listened to my heart. Not trying to be an anti abortion pusher or anything but remember you're the one who has to live with this decision. One unplanned pregnancy saved us all.
this is my personal opinion of course but if I were in your shoes (a terrible spot to be in/:) I wouldn't get an abortion. if you really want this baby you should have this baby. it might be something you regret doing for the rest of your life. something you cannot take back and could hinder you from having any more children in the future. I screw what he thinks and what he wants. if he doesn't want this baby don't let him be any part of yours of the baby's life. don't tell him shit. but again that's just me and you can always make whatever decision you want to in the end.
I agree. I just don't know what to do. it's getting harder the baby moves already. I have had an abortion before main reason I don't want to do it again. I have until 17 weeks before I can't legally do it anymore. I really don't know.
I have had abortions they are not easy but sometimes things like that are best but ur pretty far along
you don't want to be 18 years in with a man that is only going to make things harder. Think about what you truly want and what will be best for you and the baby. I'm not saying I agree with abortion but sometimes it may be better for the child not to be born in a bad situation, you could always considered adoption too, but I think you'd have to have his consent
This will be my 6th child. It makes sense to do, I don't want to go through any of this alone having this baby or even getting an abortion. I'm already 3 months in.
Don't let him change you like that, stick to your intuitive feeling, if you want this, he can use the out or not, simple.
I hear everything u guys are saying and thnk u. I want the baby its not my first child actually my 6th. I have 2 of my kids with me 2 r with their father and 1 with my mother. He says it isn't smart bc we will be taking care of 8 kids he has 2 of his own and I'm like how when u take care of 1 full time and I take care of 2 full time. idk still lost.