My husband just informs me that a person who used to be his friend left his wife and cheated on her…
My husband just informs me that a person who used to be his friend left his wife and cheated on her with a slimmer girl who's had no children but his wife has. Tbh yeah it's a sacrifice we lose our figure and yeah I'll try and get it back but if there is a few stretch marks I can't erase or my body doesn't completely go back to normal I would hope my husband still loves me I was as skinny as anything before. what kind of girl would interfere in a marriage? Or cheat with a married man ?I wouldn't... as far as I can see she looks like a slag who wouldn't know what it's like to lose her precious figure to carry for nine months and give birth to an even more precious life ...
Paula·
My motto is always ...this is me if you don't like it pick someone else!! No woman should need to change her figure to keep a man that's not love looks and body's change once you get over the attraction you fall in love with the personality....I'm sure your husbands friend will wake up one day and think shit what have I done x
Hannah·
Мама сына (4 года)
So sad yet this is all I hear of nowadays :( x
Rebecca·
It's so sad and I'm sure he will think shit what have I done... She loved him and they had children a special connection that not everyone gets.. My husband doesn't understand as he feels the most luckiest man in the world to have a wife and have a family he can't understand why his friend traded it all for a thin girl ..
Rebecca·
It's not just his wife that is affected its the children as well x
felicjuh·
В ожидании первенца
I wouldn't blame the girl as she has no responsibility.. I would blame the husband!! what a twat to cheat on his wife especially for that reason. I say to my OH if he feels like cheating he should end it with me first.. (not that he ever would)! don't get me wrong it is wrong from the girl as well but he is the one who had a family! xx
Aprajita·
В ожидании первенца
I told my hub as well, wanna leave me most welcome, If I can keep him 9 months I can raise him as well without his help (altough, he wants me and this baby more than anything in this world) Well if this slimmer gal does not have any kid yet may be one day she will have one and den this man will do the same thing ..and I strongly do blv in Karma and its certainly a bitch !!
Alena·
Мама сына (2 года)
Well, we don't even know whether the girl knew about the man's family. So I would mostly blame him for this decision. And it's his awful weakness! No way to justify this behavior. Real relationship is about a lot of things, one of them is respect. And if you respect yourself, then you respect a person you chose to live with, which means you never act behind his/her back and if you really have troubles with your partner not looking like a supermodel, then just talk to him/her! Simply talk to each other...
Rebecca·
True but I think in this case according to my husband she knew xxxxxx