Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
👑Jamicia🎀
👑Jamicia🎀
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

I know the epidural helps contractions but will it help the crowing part , if not does it hurt really bad?? I had my son…

I know the epidural helps contractions but will it help the crowing part , if not does it hurt really bad?? I had my son naturally but now I can't even remember the pain

15

Комментарии

threeandcounting

Nicole MatthewsМама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)

@queenbee29, maybe it depends on the doctor or the hospital as to how much you're given. because I've been hearing people say they felt nothing and had to be told and that was definitely not how it went for me. when it was time to push I felt it and knew when to. I didn't have a choice. and I felt her head and everything coming out. apparently I didn't get the "forget it after its over" affect either because I 100% remember it all. it's like any medicine. .. it does different people different ways.

Ответить

cynful

CynthiaМама троих детей

I got an epidural with all three of my kids and it only worked with one of them and it hurt like hell with the other two but honestly it's worth the pain and if you don't want an epidural they do have other things they can give you to ease the pain cause an epidural will mess your back up I have lower back problems and with my last pregnancy they had to stick me 3 times cause it wasn't going in right but when my epidural did work I couldn't feel ANYTHING I couldn't even feel if I was pushing and I thought I was pushing but I wasn't it took me about 5 times before I actually got it right

Ответить

tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

I am too uncomfortable to be nervous! 😂 Lol, but I have a wonderful doula and a few other ladies who are familiar with birth to help me...so I am so blessed right now. Talk to me in a day, though, when the contractions start getting closer, we will see how I feel! 😸

Ответить

missing268user

missing268user

I was just saying. I'm aware things can go wrong i was just telling her from what I've seen being in rooms with people

Ответить

queenbee29

👑Jamicia🎀Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

You're ready to have your baby anytime now, are you nervous? @tahtahme

Ответить

tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

Yes, that's why I said "sometimes"....Sometimes everything goes well, and sometimes epidural gives other complications @hermommy

Ответить

missing268user

missing268user

oh every woman I've seen that's gotten it could physically push so idk@tahtahme

Ответить

tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

I am hoping to get through it naturally, hopefully the situation doesn't require drugs, like I don't have a 2 day birth lol

Ответить

tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

Oh, I didn't mean they won't tell you, I meant some women physically can't push because they can't feel! @hermommy

Ответить

queenbee29

👑Jamicia🎀Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

😂 thank you that eased my worries @hermommy

Ответить

missing268user

missing268user

they tell you when to push I'll put it this way she was more worried about the way birth smells then pain lol so you'll be fine, your doctor will tell you when to push:)@queenbee29 quee

Ответить

queenbee29

👑Jamicia🎀Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

I heard that too @tahtahme

Ответить

queenbee29

👑Jamicia🎀Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

Really? Man I hope I don't feel it either then @hermommy

Ответить

tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

I heard epidural hinders you because you can't feel enough to push sometimes

Ответить

missing268user

missing268user

if this helps my friends baby was crowning and she was laughing bc her man made a face she couldn't feel anything

Ответить

I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive…

I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.