So am I wrong for feeling some type of way? Hubby and I were planning not to have a shower, but his sister said she wants to plan the shower and that she wants me to have no parts of it. Anyways I was shocked and excited she wanted to do that for us, but today I found out she wants us to pay all or most of it lmao. WHAT?!?!? I'd rather just buy my baby the things he needs by my damn self
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@desi720, exactly my point thanks but no thanks I told her
@alexusasia420, lol girl I wish she was paying then shoot do what you want
I'm with you @mommyto3boys if you tell me i can't be apart of it what's the point of me paying for it -----> Yeah I'll just pay for my own stuff Point Blank
Girl you should not have to put any money towards your shower. Especially if you didn't care about having one in the first place
oh no I thought u said SHE wants to pay for everything lol nope no shower I feel u @mommyto3boys
lol I don't think it's a gift when she wants me to pay for it @alexusasia420 she wants to rent a place and everything. the money we spend on all that we can just spend on the baby instead of paying 200 plus to rent a place plus decorations and food oh gosh I feel sick thinking about the cost lol
I take it your like me and is used to doing everything yourself lol but in all reality right now every Lil help for the little one counts boo unless she's doing it to be funny, take it as a gift @mommyto3boys
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
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@leslie863, thank you that's exactly what I'm saying what I look like spending all this money when I can easily buy the baby stuff myself for that matter