Sisters little familys on their way from Northampton after a long debate over it with her fiancé. He didn't want to come and if they did wanted to stay at my nannans, saying that he wasn't up to seeing a newborn after my sister had two ectopics last year (the first would have been due a couple of weeks before Isaac) but she wants to come see family and, even though it was her that went through the pain of operations to remove the babies and one of her tubes, wants cuddles with him. Bit worried that she'll try and take over though with not having her baby, but at least she has her two year old to make up
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I've got a similar situation with my SIL except she doesn't care that her only sibling is having a child. She can have kids but has severe heart problems so it wouldn't be good so she isn't going to try. When she found out I was pregnant she went off on one saying it's not fair and I shouldn't be having one etc. She's 32 married and has full custody of her partner's two children. She also knows that I've had 4 miscarriages and was told I couldn't conceive when I was young. She's still very sour about it and me and OH can't get over the fact that she can't just be happy that she's having a niece ffs. I understand that it's hard but she's still gaining a new family member. It wouldn't be very nice for my daughter to find out her aunty said she shouldn't have been born @katiesutheran2014 x
See she is telling me how to raise mine but when I tell her too mind her own buisness and how the hell would she know she doesn't have kids I'm the bad one but she winds me up so much 😡😡 makes me feel like I'm going to b a rubbish mum @katiesutheran2014 xx
@cmcdon203, that's not right at all, I can see why you're not happy! At least my sister isn't going that far but she has tried to tell me how to raise my baby, doing the exact same things she did with hers. Not looking forward to her being here even though its only a night xx
@Katiesutheran2014, Defos arnt I was really upset when my mum n dad went and bought loads of stuff for baby including my pram furniture etc and didn't invite me but invited my sister and her husband! It's my bloody baby not theirs! She's even doing a princess room in her house for her😡 also is taking 2 weeks off her work when she's born which I'm not happy about xx
Thank god I'm not the only one who has this fear @cmcdon203 xx
I have same Fear with my sisters one in particular my sisters can't have kids and one is taking over so much and makes me feel like shit with everything I do when it comes to preparing for the baby! Xx
I understand that it's heart breaking losing a child. But it's not an excuse to not be happy for someone eles specially your sister.