everyone is engaged or already married, here I am almost 5 years in with the same person with our 3…

I feel the same way but we haven't been together for 5 years though but we have a child together and been together for almost 2 years but is that too soon to be thinking about marriage?

same for me girl lol

I mean not even a promise ring, makes me wonder am I even worth it? what's the point of the relationship? I don't necessarily want to get married. but he would be hard to say no to. we're about to get our 2nd place together. that's all I get ? a home...feels temporary.

have you guys ever sat down and talked about it? and I agree not saying that a ring defines the relationship but it just a symbol of how much you mean to him and if he can't give you that then what's the point

I mention it from time to time but he's not big on communication. he thinks I wasn't too start arguments. he's stubborn

well if he wants his relationship to last he needs to get unstubborn or he going to be by himself...

lol that's what I tell him. then he thinks I'm presurring him. I wanna give up but this is the only main problem we have. doesn't seem like that big of a deal. I don't wanna be a single mom.

My SO and I have been together 3 years. We don't plan to get married though. We both view marriage as a pointless thing but we do plan to stay with each other forever

that's kind of how we are. I think he wants a marriage but we're so young. I feel like its pointless but I do wanna feel like I'm important to him.

You don't have ti get married to know you want to be with someone for the rest of your life.

guess you didn't read my last comment