how can you tell if your SO is cheating?

guards his phone with his life!!!

won't let you touch it or anything and will fight you if you try to see it

hiding things from you. won't let u look at his phone.

Hiding things from you. Disappears with no explanation, works late, guards cell phone with his life

well my reason is and might be tmi. but when we don't have sex often so he cuts fast. but tonight we had sex for the first time in a while and it took him forever....

@reaganmommy2015, @kaylaghmommy0802 @jennalynn

maybe he has been pleasuring himself since you guys haven't been having sex. does he let u see his phone?

I don't really try. and I've asked and he says no and when he was about to one time he asked if it was okk then didn't bc it was "awkward "

@jennalynn,

pay attention to the things he do. if he starts doing things out the ordinary then that's a sign. they always change.

@shevy41906, good idea

follow your gut too. if you feel like something isn't right, chances are it's not.

really quick answer to your question take his phone run to the bathroom lock the door if he runs after you he is cheating

It might not be cheating that's done it. Unless he's been displaying other signs of it than not cumming quickly, he probably has been using porn and doesn't want you to see it on his phone. Been there. It can cause big problems if left unchecked. But I wouldn't go accusing him of anything. Just tell him you thought strange that sex this time was different. See where that leads first.