You know what I hate about myself is that I always say I'm leaving him for good screw him this and that and then I start…

No problem @aldensmommy !!

Thank you so much I love this app I feel like I'm not alone kus atleast one mommy has gone thru it and we're not alone thank you @peaceofheaven121

There seems to always be that one man that you would go back to no matter what...... You can always vent to us!! A community of women, many of us are bound to understand what you're going through!

@aldensmommy, no problem! I always try to comment on these types of posts. most females on here say to just leave him as if its that easy. I stuck around and stood my ground and it worked. some guys just need a reality check. no matter how grown they think they are

Lol that's good & your right only time can thank for listening by the way ☺️@charleerose

@aldensmommy, sounds like a loosing battle to me. I can honestly say I'm very lucky with the man I got. he was a total asshole when I met him and the first couple months but now completely different. time will only tell. but don't feed into him

Which I wouldn't mind doing but when I mention tax money to him he got mad at me like oh why you wanna know I was like well do have a baby on the way I wanted to go half on what we get and open an account nope he didn't want to..he barely working now kus he jobs seasonal I told him work where my dad works makes 600 a week plus over time benefit instead of waiting for his boss to call him to work a day he say nope he wants to move in but I don't wanna be responsible later on with the bills I don't mind half I don't mind working and being house wife cooking dinner cleaning and all that but I would like support but in his eye I'm the one who doesn't it get @charleerose

@aldensmommy, I haven't worked my whole pregnancy. my boyfriend Ray has been 100 financial support. we live with my mom he moved in with us in October. he didn't really start saving for our daughter until about a month ago. I'm due in 6 weeks. we now have a savings account in both our names for our daughter. it helps us keep track of what we have just for her. right now there's only about $100 in there but that's so much better than $0 ya know. he's very needy too. every night I rub his back until he falls asleep I make sure he has lunch for work and drinks. I make his appointments dentist and doctors and even little things like tattoo appointments. I've always made them. its just something I've decided to do since I can't help any financially

Aw that's good see I wish it was like that like he loves our son he goes to every dr appt but when it come to financial Stuff he hasn't saved anything.. He wants to move in but this month that stayed at my house he made me realize how messy he is how needed and how I was the one putting money I don't wanna live with someone like that.. He doesn't get along with my mom because even my mom sees he hasn't given one dam but then again he has his sweet side and I know his intention are good but idk I'm just not feeling it and I know I wanna leave but 7 years to the trash it's easy to walk away from @charleerose

I had friends telling me to get my boyfriends rights taken because of how horrible he talked to me. I did what I wanted we were back and forth for a couple months. now we live together share a car he pays our bills and spoils the shit out of me. just let things happen naturally follow what you feel is right and what you feel you need. I lost "friends" because of staying with him. I could care less because now I realize they weren't that great of people to have around at this time on my life. I'm so glad I did what I wanted because I feel like the luckiest woman in the world

yea your telling if only

I agree but some of them don't get it kus they haven't been in a relationship or gone thru it @biancav21

but even if we do run back it be nice for once in a while a friend to pat us in the back and say we are here you know

Lol @biancav21

Thank you ladies I appreciate it @momof031989 @biancav21

Your telling me I think we are dating the same men they just dont look alike lol

Lol relationship are just so complicated but then again so are men... @biancav21

u can message me dear. i do the same thing and feel the same way

im here to talk to we can all talk to each other

I know exactly how it is And I mean EXACTLY

@aldensmommy Thank you❤

Aw thank you & same goes for you... @sarahrachel0715 ☺️

I feel the exact same way. If you ever need someone to talk to about it, I understand exactly what you feel like. I've been going through the same thing for over a year now.