*RANT ALERT* I'm so fucking sick of ppl looking down at me, like I did such a horrible thing by…
*RANT ALERT* I'm so fucking sick of ppl looking down at me, like I did such a horrible thing by having a baby, nobody is supportive of me at all, nobody is happy for me! that makes me feel horrible, "you're too young, is the child's father in its life"?? wtf are you worried bout it for your not the one taking care of it ! I just feel so alone man I swear I do. I'm tryna be excited and happy for this baby shower and I feel like my friends *whom I haven't spoke too in years nor seen and they always ignore or avoid me* every since they found out I was prego they wanna see me and fucking question me about my child's father. I'm not gonna be dealing with no nosey ass people at my baby's shower I'm not! he's not here cuz he don't wanna be !
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I HATE nosey people like that too! not like your choices r nothing they lives! @booboolanii keep ya chin up you don't need em.
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
you aren't alone mama. you have all of us here to support you 😊 turn the other cheek to the people who look down on you and tell the others it's none of their business where the father is.
shay😊·
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@justmarriedhavingaboy, @arijane316 it just really pisses me off, I'm already expecting a lot of questions from my family Nd friends at my baby shower and IMA keep it simple And say he don't wanna be in our lives! moving on!
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
That's all you have to say. you don't owe anyone an explanation. just say "he doesn't want to be around, end of story"
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@booboolanii, yes girl I don't need to explain anything to anyone. your allowed to be private! it's your life.
Bree·
@booboolanii, it doesn't matter what people think.. Are you happy? Sometimes baby's just happen.. but remember you got that little person who is going to love you & think you are just the greatest person.. Our baby wasn't planned but it doesn't mean I'm not excited.. sure my family was lecturing me about not being married yet.. & all that crap but it's not their business.. I'm happy.. a baby is never a mistake & I wouldn't take my jelly bean back.. but I know how it feels to feel alone & have no friends.. I can't drink & party anymore.. so no one wants to hang out with me.. I get it.. don't feel like you owe anyone a explanation.. you are going to be an amazing Mom! :)
shay😊·
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@bree_55, yes I'm finally happy it toook me a while too actually be happy but I am , for a min I was so depressed and had a lot of anxiety attacks because I was so scared of folks judging me . but I realized ppl gone talk regardless , Idgaf and yeH it still does bother me a Lil but I'm a lot better then I was before. my baby is no mistake that's all I do know , she's the best thing that has ever happeened too me! and thanks hun
Bree·
That's the spirit @booboolanii .. :)
Maybeth·
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Trust me a lot of people are just gonna judge you without even having a reason behind it . They think that just cause your young you're just another irresponsible little girl that won't even be able to take care of her own baby . I'm 17 and trust me even now I still have to deal with idiotic people like that . When everyone first found out they were all asking why and how . Or what a young girl like me was gonna do . How I just ruined my life . And now that I'm showing and everything its all dirty stares and judgement from strangers or even people at school . All I can ever do it just walk past it with a smile (: cause even when they think I can't do it . i know that I'll give my baby the most amazing life . ❤️ just keep your head up and don't stress too much over it (: at the end of the the day all that matters is your beautiful baby and you (: if you ever feel down or anything you know you can always message me (: I mean I don't know you or anything 🤔 but I'd be glad to be your friend and hear you out on whatever (:
shay😊·
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@maybeth239, thanks love! I appreciate it! and too those people I say fuck them! lol 😊