went to my 12 wk sono today and received some heartbreaking news. my baby has a lot of swelling around its head and neck. I did some bw to check for any abnormalities, but Dr said 80% chance,I will have to abort the baby 😭😭😭😭 I asked if I an still carry and if it will survive, he said usually in these cases the baby doesn't Make it to term
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it was mostly the neck my first one had a lot of fluid everywhere along with many other issues. I got my blood testing done and saw a specialist both of my babies had genetic issues and their chances of living outside the womb were slim to none and that was even if I made it to term. this is just my case I have done so much research and there are definitely cases that resolve themselves/false positives on tests. I would definitely get a second or even third opinion and only do what u feel is right because in the end its only your decision what you do and what you want your child to go through. I can only speak from my experiences and definitely don't want to freak you out because no case is the same @cupcakesandbows
was it just the neck? cause the Dr said it was the neck and the head. if the baby has let's say the same of your diagnosis, is there any positive outcome?
yes I had two babies one with a 19 mm cystic hygroma (fluid behind the neck) along with a bunch of other problems and the next one a 7mm cystic hygroma
thank you so much @germanayy you went through the same situation?
this has happened to me with my last two pregnancies. I can definitely say my heart breaks for you and to just keep your head up. I'm not saying its going to work out the same as it did for me because miracles definitely do happen. keep a level head and definitely ask all the questions you need to and don't be afraid to take your time with decisions. @cupcakesandbows hope everything turns out well message me if you need to
thank you everyone for the prayers, I hope it will be OK. I'm beyond nervous!
Sorry doesn't come close to a sense of relief. Just like the other moms said get a second opinion their maybe better new. Have faith I'm praying all ends well honey.
yes 2nd opinion... anything could happen I will definitely be sending lots of prayers. . I'm sorry that u are going through this..
miracles can definitely occur. get a second opinion and wait it out. if a miscarriage happens, I'm sorry, but this early the mistakes can correct themselves! they could be one that defeats the odds!
Yes get a second opinion because God works wonders, and everything could turn out to be okay. I said a prayer for you, keep your head up beautiful 🙌
Sorry to hear this - maybe get a 2nd opinion from another doctor.
😦 I'm so sorry honey. I know sorrys isn't gonna make the pain go away. but ill be praying for you and your little one. 💓
So sorry but miracles do happen! Prayers!!
I don't know what to say.. I'm so sorry. my heart is breaking for you 😓
thank you so much @germanayy