So my husband and I are getting divorced as many of you seen previously I was having some issues with my in laws and it ended up getting way out of hand. My husband took our financial information and bills to their house to be picked apart accused me of cheating on him and saying our daughter isn't his. I have always been 100% faithful to my husband but now that he's said this my heart is broken and since he's involved his parents in something that isn't their business and his parents and sister now refer to my baby as the "fucking baby" I'm heartbroken and I'm done I shouldn't be treated the way his parents have treated me the last two weeks and him take their side. My question is how do you mamas embrace single motherhood without freaking out and if your divorced how did you make peace with it I love him but I know I deserve better.
Well first off you should definitely get a paternity test to shut them the hell up, second get full custody so it can hurt them and have them feel guilty when they won't see your beautiful princess grow up, third out a restraining order so they won't be able to hurt or harass you in any way. You do not need a man to make you happy not raise a child. I grew up without a father and I'm perfectly fine because my mother is all I got to look up to and she did an amazing job. You are too beautiful to stress or worry about them. Be happy that that bastard gave you a precious gift and that's your daughter. Take care of her and love her forever because she is all you have and vice Versa. One day someone will come around and play a role as a daddy for her and if that doesn't happen you will be a great mother/father. Keep your head up 😊
in most states when the test comes out as them being the father they make the man pay for the test..so its like the man putting his foot in his mouth...im sorry your having to go thru that but it seems best because you should never be treated like that.best of luck
Oh my attorney says we'll do a paternity test just for spite since they said that. If I could post the voicemail my father in law left on here for you all to hear to know exactly what I've been dealing with I would
So sorry to hear how your in laws are treating you. No woman ever should be treated that way, or your baby girl be called that. You two are absolutely beautiful, and you don't need that kind of negative energy in your lives.
But still, a part of me would want to get a paternity test, just to rub it in their faces. That's the revenge-ful side of me talking. I will keep you and your precious daughter in my prayers.
I am so sorry you are going through this 😳 Its heartbreaking any time I hear about a divorce, but you need to do what is best for you and for your daughter. I just looked at your profile, and I have to say, I can tell you are a very strong woman and a fighter, so you WILL get through this. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me". Also, don't let them bully you and gang up on you like that - detach yourself from the situation as much as possible, and give things time. Chances are, he will feel like a fool for throwing false accusations your way, and he will (hopefully) come to realize he misses his daughter. I hope and wish the best for you and your baby girl, and I will say a special prayer for you both.
I'm so sorry to hear that. it sounds like you're ready to move on though. I am still pregnant but got separated from my husband before I found out
.. he hasn't been here through this pregnancy. at all. but I will say that even though there are moments of weakness where i just want everything the way it was....I then realize how stress free I am that he's not here! and looking back on our relationship I am just so happy I get to raise my son on my own without him because no matter what he did differently I would probably never be as happy as I am being able to make decisions and raise the real love of my life by myself! sending prayers and love to you. so sorry about your in laws too. you definitely don't need that plaguing your life. sounds so awful