what do you do when your husband who knew you were off BC, didn't use contraceptive methods and had…
what do you do when your husband who knew you were off BC, didn't use contraceptive methods and had said he wanted another baby knowing you have lost five other says he doesn't want it now that you are 14 weeks along and refuse to give it up for adoption like he wants? we already have a toddler who he says is the only one he will take care of. I feel sick to my stomach and hate him for what he's said. he even helped me pick out a name and seemed excited a few weeks ago after being cold towards me when we found out then as soon as we saw it for the first time he switches back to I don't want another baby right now give it up. I feel so alone and broken...
maria·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I've been there darling my husband was the same way it took him a few appts but he finally came around hell come around just give him time and if he dosent well the baby will airways have you
Annamarie·
maybe there's something else bugging him and he will come around. You still have a ways to go so there's time for things to change. Sorry that you have to go through that though. My husband never acts excited for me being pregnant but once I have the babies he changes. @lakilucid
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
no he said we can't afford another baby and he didn't want another this soon. well he didn't try to prevent it either. I told him he could leave like he did when I was pregnant with our toddler. he refuses but still doesn't want our new addition. I don't want to hope he will come around for him not to. he says adoption is best and I'm being selfish keeping it even though he said its his child and he would love it and just deal with being " miserable" because he knows I'm keeping it.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I don't want to choose between my kids and husband again due to his selfishness. but if I have to I choose my kids.
Kristy·
Always choose your children I'm sorry but he is being selfish yes babies are expensive but it usually all pans out
missing197user·
WOW! how rude! I don't like that. He helped make the baby, didn't even prevent it, to say, oh give it up for adoption. Is there a husband adoption ??? haha just trying to make you smile, hope it gets better
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
thanks ladies. I know itll be hard, but they are my babies damnit! and yes that made me chuckle.