be there for her tho not many people stayed and helpedme for long it's really depressing .. but yeah I did it for my daughter and my other daughter along the way.. cuz he was hurting her as well.

you can only do so much for her. I learned trying to help my sister but I came to realize that I can't continue to help her. It was so hard turning my back and telling her no when she'd ask me for help because of my nieces. But now I have a little one on the way and I have to think of her and her safety before I put myself back in that situation trying to help her. I've even made the hard decision that she's not allowed to meet my daughter until she gets off the drugs and changes her lifestyle. It's hard because my sister is such an amazing aunt and mom when she's clean and focuses on her girls. @family_first01

aww poor baby good thing you got out. and good thing she doesn't have kids he can't have kids cause of all the drugs he did @medina.purrrl

he already has his way of manipulating her :/ but no one could help her but herself.. or just help her not to contact him cuz these guys have their ways.. the father of my children beat & cheated on me , but I realized that my daughter was getting traumatized with all the violence going on

that's just crazy but your absolutely right can't help someone that cries wolf. I got into it with him ones as well he was choking her and her little brother watching and crying @babynessa

yes she's left him 3 times and he somehow convince her the same day to go back @medina.purrrl

it's hard being in a position like that I'll tell you for experience and she already got him In that routine.. of her going back

yes we've help her so many times that's why no one cares now. but I can't leave her alone on this she needs someone @medina.purrrl

thanks to my mom I opened my eyes

yes he really is I can't stand him😕 but I will and thank you hopefully she'll open her eyes before it's too late @deefrasee

My oldest sister is in a abusive relationship. Her sperm donor started to beat her one time when I was in another room. Biggest mistake he ever did in front of me. I jumped in because 3 of my nieces were crying begging their dad to stop hitting their mom. He didn't expect me jump in since no one has ever stood up to him before and because I'm the baby of the family. My sister kept telling me to stop because he was gunna hit me and I told him go ahead hit me and see where it ends him. I was actually begging him to hit me which made him scared. But all he did was run his mouth and threatened me. Which I wish he would have hit me considering I'm not a coward like my sister and would have pressed charges on him. He never did anything because at the time my husband was out of the state serving in the military and he was scared if he touched me that my husband, brother, and grandfather would beat the shit out of him. My sister is still with this guy about to have baby number 5 with him even though this guy has another girl living with them and got the other girl pregnant as well. Tried helping my sister and the other girl but you can't help someone that cries wolf all the time and doesn't want to take action and leave the situation.

I bet some guy's are just trash when my mom found out my husband was putting hands on me o she told me you either leave him now or I'll take your kids away that was it for me I left him in a heartbeat 😢😢😢😢😢😢

it's always her choice :/ they helped me countless of times but I still went back

@family_first01, If there is one thing I wished is that my best friend would have stuck around and been more at my side, and not given up like she did. So I think you being there for his is great just remind her how great of a person she is and what she really deserves, but it sounds like he is an asshole and she deserves better. What better way then you to help her see that eventually

I've talked to her so many times. and her family is so over it. bit I don't feel right giving up on her. he puts her down in social media and doesn't have a care in the world for her @baby26 @deefrasee

She's only been with him for a year and a few months. they moved in together when they only 2 months of knowing each other. and the day she ran away with him he hit her. God knows how many times he's mistreated her. he used to threaten her pointing a gun to his head saying he would kill himself that's how he got her to run away😐 @medina.purrrl @baby1004

you should talk to that person show them that they are not alone I was in a abusive relationship and I keeped it to by self it was the worse thing ever is like leaving in hell

Sadly I feel like it really has to be whoever is in the relationships decision. I was in a abusive relationship, and even with it causing to loose all my friends and family and their trust at the time because I wouldn't listen to them, I had to figure it out on my own that I needed to get help and get away. My family still tells me to this day it was hard to watch, but they couldn't do anything to help me until I made up my mind to leave. I wouldn't wish for anyone to have to go through it, but in the end it's all in Gods plan 💕

Of 11 years I feel I have the right to at least give her my opinion it's up to her to take it or leave it. She says she wants out and she can't take it anymore but she till stays. He's a good husband it's only when he drinks

My bestfriend is in a bad relationship. Her husband pushes her around when he starts drinking and talks down on her. She has two kids, one angel baby and is pregnant again. She calls me every time crying and crying. I have told her plenty of times she needs to get out and do what's best for the girls. It isn't my place to say anything but as her best friend o

I've been in a abusive relationship so I wouldn't even wish it upon me worst enemy :/ love is blind.. 3 years of that I took ..