I'm over trying help people with stuff.. Second person I tried to help with baby things.. Never again will I offer stuff I have to people , not trying to sound mean but one of my friends had a baby today outside of his relationship. I told him last month I'm go through my daughter stuff to see what clothes she can't fit.. while I did and majority of it was preemie so his baby couldn't fit it.. So I offered him a bouncy chair and asked him "What do you have?" not trying be mean.. When I say he flip out, stating she have clothes and she don't have a bed cause she going sleep with him.. I was going message back and say evidently she don't have clothes if you messaging me for clothes.. But I didn't bother because apparently he felt some type of way over a normal question..