So moms I need help... My first born is almost six months old and his dad who I've been with for four years just got a job offer in Texas. A really good one. But I live in Las Vegas and he's considering going without us and it doesn't even seem to bother him. How would you feel about your man leaving you for 10 months when you just had a baby
That sucks....I totally understand where you're coming from, you voiced your concerns and was probably looking for support from him because you were sad at the idea of leaving your family...and he took it wrong and got mad and basically said fuck it, I'll go without you...I would be really upset by that, too! I would just tell him how you feel, that you weren't saying you didn't want to go with him you were just venting, because you are allowed to feel sad about leaving family behind! And tell him that his reaction was really hurtful!
maybe he just assumed that you guys were going with him and when you said you were nervous to go it hurt his feelings? @josephsmomma2015
If you made a big deal about it he may have thrown that in your face because he is taking it either way. Did you make him feel bad?
I was going to go with him but then he threw it in my face that he would just go without us. And that's what bothers me. He doesn't even care. He has a good job now and we would be fine if he stayed. That's not even the point though because I was going to go with him
I would move with him, sometimes ya gotta make sacrifices for your family even if it's hard to do
It is so hard finding or getting a good job these days. I know it is hard but this is a good thing! Feel blessed, my husband is having a hard time finding a stable job. It could be worse.
@josephsmomma2015, I'm sorry but I would move...that's what seems like to best thing for your family,especially if it's a good job opportunity. what is the job?
Yeh of course he did but I am having a hard time wanting to leave my family. When I told him I was worried I might be depressed he said he didn't need the drama and he would go by himself
You're welcome, mama 😍 sorry you're going through this, I hope he realizes that he overreacted and you guys work it out and come up with some kind of compromise 😊