Ok I'm 15 And Pregnant And I Don't Know What To Do. I'm Just A Freshman In High School.

just take it day by day. do your normal school thing. you can do this.your school will need to know tho if you decide to follow through with the pregnancy

you could always look into adoption of you think keeping the baby isn't something you want or could do. I know it's kinda taboo, but if you plan on going to college or having a career, or have a family that isn't supportive..it's always an option. if you decide to keep it, there are also lots of programs to help.

have you talked to your parents yet? @graciesbaby

@graciesbaby, where's your parents? And is the father involved? Big decision to make because you're so young.

where are your parents.

You need to talk to your parents. You are 15. It's hard at 29 so I have no clue what u are going to do at 15. And you a freshman? How did this even happened if u are in school?

I'm a young pup to lol I'm 16, I'm not pregnant but I'm trying to and my mom knows and the father is involved. I turn 17 in March. my best advice is if your really ready for this journey in life then take each day one at a time and just stay calm. If you have to try online classes like I am it makes school so much easier. if your not ready for this crazy journey that will be fun but also a little stressful then talk to your parents about other options. if you need anymore advice feel free to message me. I understand were you are coming and it's scary. feel free to message me I can help you through this.

good luck! talk to your parents. they should be able to help you

@oklahoma1999, so not good advice. She's 15! She honestly shouldn't be pregnant and at 16, u shouldn't be TRYING to get pregnant!! THESE ARE NOT BARBIE DOLLS AND THE FATHER IS INVOLVED NOW....u do realize 64%(an actual statics) THE MAN DOESNT STAY AROUND MARRIED OR NOT😒

Yea I'm 16 trying to get pregnant just because I don't wanna be like other girls my age getting stds and doing drugs and drinking makes me a bad person. OK that's fine with me alot of other mommies on this are really supportive. I know what I'm doing and I used to tear the heads off Barbie dolls cause I had to raise my little brother cause my dad had problems and my mom was always at work. so what if actual statics say that only 64% say that the man does not stay. whoppity freaking doo. my man raised his younger brother and sister cause his mama was on dope. we have both discussed it and my dad has threatened him he's ready for it. I suggested if you are going to be on this app you be a little more supportive. you never know what could have contributed to the fact that she's pregnant. maybe broken condom or who knows your 29 grow up and be a little more supportive. @hiswife_theirmommy

thank you for being sensible! @hiswife_theirmommy getting pregnant at 16 on a fluke is one thing but going out your way is not something that needs to be promoted

I'm gonna stay in school for as long as I can. My mom knows and is involved in everything. The father doesn't know and I'm not with the farther.

message me @graciesbaby id follow through no matter what but in reality you need to tell your parents because either way they will find out eventually. I am 20 and pregnant. hell its hard now with my two step babies.

So u not looking for a baby to be a mother u looking for love? @oklahoma1999 YOU CANT BASE BEING A PARENT OFF A KID THAT U EVENTUALLY HAD TO GIVE THEM BACK TO THEIR PARENTS! It doesn't work like that! I need to grow up but u are purposely getting pregnant! U KEEP TALKING ABOUT YOUR MOM YOUR DAD I HAVENT HEARD U MENTION ABOUT A JOB YOUR OWN PLACE A CAR.......don't worry I'll wait....again ILL SUPPORT THE CAUSE BUT IM NOT GOING TO LIE TO U OR HER. U ARE 16, if I have to "GROW UP" u have no choice but to be a 16 y/o....!!! A man? Where is your Justin BIeber posters...THATS BEING 16!!!

Baby girl I'm not being negative but that right there what u just said proves u should have to do it alone n your mother SHOULDNT BE responsible for your baby because the father is not around. If u feel u should keep it by all means do that BUT AT LEAST GIVE TOURSELF A CHANCE U HAVENT EVEN LIVED OR SEEN THE WORLD YET!

@mango44, @hermommy @arijane316

@tayek

I want to be a mother, I do have my own place, a car, and a job. and ew Justin beiber, I grew up on four-wheeled acting like one of the boys.

I got pregnant at 15 and I'm 22 now and on my sixth and happy with my man , so I think it just depends on the situation

You should look into schools where pregnant mommies go, they had one at my city and i had a lot of friends go their and they loved it plus once you have baby you can still go to school and they take care of your baby while your at school which is awesome

that is awesome @theirmommy_2

smh... smh.

@oklahoma1999, lacy is it? Imma pray for u cuz it's obviously a joke to u. I hope your dreams come true 😕

@hiswife_theirmommy, i agree with you

You need to tell your parents. I can't even imagine what you're goin' thru because when I was 15 I didn't even like boys yet. You're gonna need a lot of support and it's gonna be rough, that's the reality. I'm 32 and MARRIED and sometimes wonder if we are ready.

I mean everybody's life is different @theirmommy_2 but at 15-16, REAL LIFE BOYS WERE NASTY AS HELL TO ME! I was drooling over Lil Fizz and NOBODY could compare to him! Didn't even lose my v-card until 18 2 months before my 19th bday!!! 😒 n I was making close to 37,000/yr fresh outta high school

Oh Lord, @hiswife_theirmommy I think you are probably the only one with common sense here. @graciesbaby listen sweetie I know it's probably like the scariest thing for you right now to think about this and make these desicions at your age, talk to your mom, dad and any other person you feel comfortable with and get advice from all of them, look at your options and decided together. I had a friend in high school who got pregnant at 15 (not on purpose) she had her baby and continued school and graduated and is doing really well with her life. on the other hand she had an amazing support system and people like her parents who helped her A LOT along the way. all you can do right now is talk to your parents and calm down and go over everything. things will work out how they are supposed to, God has a plan for everyone. good luck hon :)

Ok @hiswife_theirmommy I know what I did was bad and I shouldn't of had sex but I did and I'm going to take care of it. I'm getting a job in two weeks. I didn't do it so I could have a baby or anything. I asked my mom about adoption and my mom said no. So I guess I'm going to to what's best for me and this baby.

THANK YOU @paisleesmommy, it worked for your friend, BUT I KNOW U KNOW SOME GIRLS IN THE SAME SITUATION WHO IT DIDNT WORK OUT FOR RIGHT!?!?! See @Graciesbaby listen to her!! Only u know your real situation!

Didn't say it was bad, u are now a owning up to what u did first stage in being a mother, I JUST WASNT ABOUT TO LIE TO U! It's about to be hard baby girl let me tell u, but don't let anybody glorify being pregnant at 15-16 as being something that "totally cool and awesome" it's not the "IT" thing...really

and as for you @oklahoma1999 you have got to be kidding me, you are 16!! slow the heck down girl! life isn't that simple, it's hard as shit! I'm only gonna be 20 in August(after my baby is born) and my fiance will only be 21 and we are struggling, granted my pregnancy was not planned but my fiance has a damn good job that pays very well and we are STILL struggling!! a baby isn't easy, it's expensive and definitely not a toy! you can't bring a baby into this world just because you are bored! you need to be responsible! I'm not telling you not to, Lord knows I can't do that but I'm not telling you it's a good idea either. maybe you should just live your life a little more and then plan again down the road a little.

@hiswife_theirmommy, oh definitely, I know some girls in the same situation that it didn't work out for! it's a different situation for everyone! you can't just go off of what everyone else did, it's your own situation and you have to do what is best for you! @graciesbaby

oh man, im 23 and my husband makes over 50k a year and im really contemplating tying my tubes because having babies is stressful! this will be my second.

they don't even know what that is though smfh @hiswife_theirmommy

@paisleesmommy, 1,000,000,000% agree with u! Kids are hard and even with me it's hard cuz that's not the only thing it takes to raise a kid!!! Ugh

@mango44, which further lets me know what our society is doing to our kids! 😒😕the fuck is Muffy C. when u need her smart ass mouth lmao

😳😂😂😂😂😂 you're the mature Muffy!! ayeee lmaoooo @hiswife_theirmommy

😩😩😩when she had "growed" up lmao @mango44

😂😂😂😂😂 byeee fool! @hiswife_theirmommy

wow are you guys really judging this girl? she is looking for support! she is scared and shouldn't be stressed because you guys think she is too young. If you don't like it then block her or ignore it. @hiswife_theirmommy @mango44

Thank you @gabrielle9.2.15

no problem hun

i'm sorry, you are? @gabrielle9.2.15 my advice to the poster was minimal. more so for the other child commenting. and you could have ignored the comments as well. but ya couldn't help yourself. so move around 👌🏽

you could have ignored her post, so how about you move around 👌@mango44

but i didn't. and here we are. are you finished? @gabrielle9.2.15

good luck girl! you are 15 being pregnant is amazing stressful but amazing!

as long as you are @mango44

@graciesbaby,

i never addressed you to begin with. again, ARE YOU FINISHED? or nah? @gabrielle9.2.15

@gabrielle9.2.15, excuse me sweetie point me to the nearest "Judgmental" comment. I gave her advice and ADVICE THAT SOMEBODY WITH SENSE WOULD GIVE A 15 y:o, being 15 is not amazing. Don't lie to her ugh. N if u didn't like it why didn't u ignore my "judgmental" comment....?? Haaaaaannnnn?

Lol I said as long as you are but you keep commenting. so you must not be. @mango44

oh okay, you're searching for attention today. you should search for a hobby instead of being a troll. good day :) @gabrielle9.2.15

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you can get through it, I heard you say your mom won't let you put the baby up for adoption, how is that her choice? it ultimately is your baby and your choice regardless of how young you are. I'm sorry your going through this but in the end you'll find a way to make it :) babies can be blessings.

@oklahoma1999, I'm sorry, I'm not judging you by any means, but you are just a child why do you want a child on purpose? grow up and see the world learn new things I'm 19 and I'm going to struggle it doesnt matter about the daddy. don't tell another 15 year old what your doing when it isn't necessarily right... i swear I would freak if my daughter does something like this on purpose. @graciesbaby baby girl, it has happened keep our head up, and make sure you talk to your mom about your options STAY IN SCHOOL if you chose to keep the baby please make sure you do whatever you can possible to make sure the baby has the best life possible you after all will be the example <3 I'd you chose adoption great if you chose to keep the baby that's great too, things happen girl just keep you head up and make the best decision possible

So if your 13 year old step daughter came to u and told u she was pregnant your respond would be "Oh honey that amazing...?" @gabrielle9.2.15 or u gonna tell her how hard it is, especially by it being the world we live in today! If yo home boy Trump get into office EVERYTHING IS GETTING CUT! So it's either she gets a job at 13 which as a grown woman u should know is not going to happen unless she's baby sitting somebody else's kid OR u and your husband take care of it.....if u honestly think I'm being judgmental I feel bad for u!

I want you to know that not everyone will judge you. That there will be people who make things harder. Yes, it is life changing. No, it may not be easy. But you got this or it wouldn't have been you chosen to carry that baby. If you need to talk to anyone, I am always here. Since you just found out it could terminate itself, then again it could continue till full term. There is any number of possiblities. Just remember to keep strong. @graciesbaby

@hiswife_theirmommy, @mango44 @tayek I swear if my daughter ever TRIES to get pregnant be for she is 19 i will freak the fuck out on her😒 tf these kids doing man, I mean aaccident I understand shit happens but TRYING lol. bet they also want out if high school if they only knew the shit that was coming😂😂

@hiswife_theirmommy, if it was my step daughter then that's different, this girl isn't my daughter and I'm not about to treat her like she is mine. I'm not saying "yay you're pregnant!" but I'm saying she just came here for support.

Thank you @babyt16

@babyt16, you talking like somebody talking down to her. I'm not going to congratulate her nor am I going to say it wonderful. AND IF U THINKING IT YES. I WOULD TELL MY DAUGHTER THE HARSH REALITY OF BECOMING PREGNANT AT 15 in THE USA WITH AN ELECTION AROUND THE CORNER SO IMPORTANT THAT PEOPLE DONT EVEN JNWO WHERE THEIR NEXT MEAL IS COMING FROM...not going to glorify it for NO 15 y:o. I can sugarcoat if u like

another thing @graciesbaby I want to say sorry for how rude and judgemental people are and will be on here and in person. Please don't think that EVERYONE is like that though.

@gabrielle9.2.15, well as a mother(not being mean) I TOLD HER EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD HAVE TOLD MY DAUGHTER. NO SHES NOT YOUR DAUGHTER BUT SHES 2 years older than her. THATS THE SAME THING IF YOUR S/D's FRIEND WAS SCARED TO TALK TO HER MOM AND CONFIDED IN YOU WHAT WOULD U TELL HER IF YOUR DAUGHTER WAS STANDING NEXT TO HER FRIEND TALKING TO YOU? It takes a village..........

@graciesbaby, like i said things happen no reason to be negative now, just don't stress and keep your head up. Stay in school and do you best :)

oh and congratulations oh the baby, lots of cool new things to come:) the good thing about being young is you will learn together! my mom was 20 when she had me, and I honestly believe our relationship was better because she was still young@graciesbaby

@hermommy, thank you for not judging and both my parents are fine with it cause they understand I don't like what other teenagers my age are doing. My boyfriend makes about $700 every week, I've got a job that I'm making a little bit but enough. I understand everyone has their own opinions on it, but seriously they blew it completely out of proportion with the OMG your 15 and pregnant what the heck and stuff like that. I wasn't meaning to start anything it's just some girls decide to start young or have accidents. I know my advice might not being much and it might not always be right, but it's still out there cause I'm her age and I can help her a little bit.

BTW I'm in school. I'll be graduating in the fall. I am also the top of my class.

I'm not much older than her I'm 19 I've been through high school and also went through something similar to her@oklahoma1999 I will nevr judge anyone for their decisions unless your my child it's not my problem. As for my daughter in 16 years if I find out shes trying for a baby she won't have an ass, I tried to grow up early and boy did I learn it wasn't fun I wish every day I could go back to high school amd have fun and no worried

I had my fun at a really young age and what I'm watching other girls my age do just kinda disgusts me. I know a kid is expensive and everything, but I'm up on my feet running. it's gonna be hard Yea, but I'm so ready for it. Most people just don't understand where I'm coming from and that's fine with me. I'm just tired of everybody freaking out over it. I really appreciate you not judging and all the high school stuff has gotten so boring to me all the parties and everything. Also where I'm from having fun has to do with dope around my town and I ain't into that. @hermommy I understand your just helping thanks for not being like the other people too

having a baby at a ypunge age is really not as bad as you think.. I got pregnant at 16 and had them when I turned 17 i now have twins and they are honestly the best thing that has happened