good morning beautiful mommies ! I want to know who everyone wants in the delivery room with them on the big day! I keep going back and forth between wanting just my man and I or maybe my sister and mom too. what's everyone's opinions for this first time mama ? 💞
I plan on only having my husband in there. if you knew my relationship with my mom you would understand lol. she is super nice, but really overbearing, and a nurse but not an ob nurse, so she would be all up in my business but not really know what she is doing. and I get cranky when I'm in pain or tired, and I'm sure I will be both, so I don't want to say something I will regret and hurt her feelings. my husband can take it, but she really cant.
with my 1st just me and my bd, 2nd bd, sister and bd mama, and my 3rd bd, my mom and my sister was via skype
My fiance and my mom. My sister wants to be in there, but I don't want to scar her.
I'm having a c section so only my husband will be in there but they have a viewing area for other family members so it'll probably be my stepmom, mom, SIL, MIL watching
I can have four people. already chose my mom, dad, so, and his mother. but now I'm second guessing wanting his mom in the room because I'd rather have my sister in the room. she had a c section with her baby (my god son) and felt like she was "robbed" of the entire experience. she was put under and when she woke up she had missed her sons first breaths and didn't get to do the skin to skin either. I feel like she'd love to be apart of my labor. I just don't know how to break the news to my bf or his mom!!
I only had my husband I didn't want my mom or sister they stayed in there until I was ready to push then I had them leave. It was really crowded in my room anyways with just my husband I had 2 nurses the Dr an a surgical technician in there as well for when you tear they hand the Dr the tools they need plus I pushed for 2 hrs so it was a long process but I only wanted to share it with my husband this time around I only want him again too.
I'm only having my sister. When she delivers in a couple weeks, she's only having her fiance and I. All the moms in our family are way too much drama. We learned that when she had my niece a couple years back.
I'm just gonna have my husband with me but my dad will be on stand by to come in if Jared needs a break. When I get to pushing though I need my hubs in the room, guiding me through it. (I'm already tearing up thinking of it. It'll add a whole new dynamic to our marriage on top of having a baby because he's gonna be there for me when I need him the very most in my whole life, guiding me in love.)
@mamabearluken, yea I know.. my mom is such a character though Idk if she can coach me through it and us not have disagreements lol , I'm such a mama's girl at heart though..I'm going to try and go natural as possible too. so exciting to know in two months I'll be a mom. I hope your delivery is amazing 😊😊
@kim5309, yeah that's true. I am just nervous since its our first. were not 100 percent sure what to expect of course. and I'm going natural so I just might want my mama and sissy in there to help me through it bc they understand the pain women go through unlike men
same here.. @mamabearluken , I don't think I'll know till it's actually happening lol. Its such a magical moment I might just share it with my boyfriend and then let them come in right after.
@kim5309, my mom already assumes she is gonna be in there. I just haven't decided if I want a big show during this painful and scary and amazing experience lol
@beansprout, awh I'm sorry to hear that. I'm so glad you have a great support system through your family and friends though ! sounds like you're gonna have a full room (:
I'm thinking just my boyfriend and maybe my mom...Idk if she would want to be in the room ( she hasn't really voiced it)..but if she doesn't then I might ask my step mom 😊
I'm a first timer but I've chosen to let my mama, our friends Lexie and Joey who work the track (also dubbed godmother and godfather) my friend Bri and my little brothers if they wish to see what our mother went through 4 times. sadly baby daddy won't be there he left me when I told him I was pregnant.
@mamabearluken, I want to have a full room. I don't want to limit who all is there when my little Bean is born. I want to tell little Bean someday just how great the birthing room was. I'm not too worried about baby daddy. I thought we had something but he left faster than light. He isn't ready for a responsibility like this. I'm not one to chase someone who doesn't feel the same way I do. I'll always love the guy but I won't forgive him easy for all that he said and did. I'm not afraid to raise my baby on my own. The supporters I have are more than enough. With God as my outrider anything is possible 👆🙏🙏