okay so im just going back and forth about this induction but i really sat down and listened to myself (hope u guys understand and dont think im crazy lol) and i really dont think my baby or i am ready to give birth but my doctor had said to a nurse who was on the phone with me i can wait but risk complications because i have had abortions before but i really dont feel like we are ready and induction is 2 days away not sure what to do if i shouls go through with it and its just me scared of labor just talking what u ladies think his reasoning for me getting induced was because he was suspecting a big baby but he did not give me an ultrasound just felt around my tummy he also refuses to check for dilation so i have no idea if my body has even started to get ready for labor he refuses to do it says he doesnt want to give me an infection
Follow your gut!!! I am going in tomorrow to say the exact same thing! I just really don't think its time regardless of what my Dr's vague statistics say. Unless she can say something specific is happening right now to ME personally, like my placenta just disappeared Lol, I am going to let my babies tell me what to do!
Hahah. They can wait. It's up to your body and your baby when they get to meet baby. No one else.
thank you and i think i am i hope my fam doesnt get upset they wanna meet baby already @kmally
It's your body. Follow your gut. I think his reasoning sounds bogus and is more for his convenience than anything ❤️
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Go by what you feel is right!!!