So this is my first pregnancy and as thankful as I am for my baby I'm scared to death.. Just of the whole process.. Just…

Just wait until you have a metal speculum stick in your lady part, I can deal with pain and omg I almost cried I can just imagine labor !

What do you mean stuck ?

They use it to check you down under like for pap spears and such sometimes they are metal some are plastic. First time here also I'm 31 weeks and its getting REAL. Enjoy the journey stay strong and if you donno how you will fjnd a way. Congrats!

Oh yeah those metal ones hurt but they won't do it often this is my second baby and I had my iud removed after 5 years of having it in after having my daughter and they use that metal pap thing and omg I literally told the dr are you almost done and afterwards I bled a lil but that was painful you just have to go to a dr that your comfortable with after that experience I changed drs I was like nope! ! lol good luck tho

They told me I don't do a Pap smear because I'm not 21 😔

But thank you everyone ❤️

really? that's weird. I'm 18 and got a pap smear at 9 weeks at the beginning of my first ob appointment.

Huh that is weird. My doctor told me I didn't need one..

@stellaarzola, I meant stick ! My dr didn't give me a pap either he used it to check my cervix and swab it for some tests

I'm just gonna have to remind myself it's for the baby.. ❤️ @snicole12

paps suck had one done two weeks ago

@stellaarzola, That's what I do! And always relax and breathe !