I'm not one of those girls that asks my boyfriend to do ridiculous tasks like if I'm hungry I go get…

I'm not one of those girls that asks my boyfriend to do ridiculous tasks like if I'm hungry I go get it myself, I pay for my own things. do I wish I had the option to have him do nice things? of course I do. but he's not like that, tonight my hips and back hurt so bad all I asked was for him to rub my back for a minute and his response "no, I'm too tired I worked all day and you should ask earlier" mother fucker I work too, never ask you for ANYTHING I help you pay for things and you can't do one little nice thing for me? uhg. I keep telling myself this relationship is over but I need to go through with things and end this.