had an appointment today. I'm 2 cm and softening. now I'm measuring 35 + 5. sucks cause me and my boyfriend can have sex to try to keep dilating but he only wants to jack off. like wtf Hi I'm right here, with a vagina. sex is a must for us but you'd rather watch it than do it? I don't get it. my feelings are hurt for sure..
@kristandley, Maybe because he knows you're uncomfortable with it, tell him you want to watch it with him and fool around. Reality is all men watch porn doesn't matter how good you are or what you can do, watching it together maybe show him you're willing to get out your comfort zone and try new things.
I don't know what porn he watches though. he keeps himself locked away from me when he watches it and his phones never within my reach to take a look. @bakingbabylovett
@kristandley, Sounds weird, but I finally watched some of the porn my husbands into, nothing weird but I was like oh hell thats at it, thats what hes into and so without him knowing I watched "his" porn I started reenacting what I watched, not knowing I would end up liking it too. I was uncomfortable also but being in the moment I was all into it. I mean if thats something you're willing to do for your man, then study the porn. Of course its taboo & most women get offended by it, but hey you never know. ...now I sound like a weirdo lmao
I'm gonna tell you what I told @mimiz a couple months ago, tie him down and take it. don't let him hurt your feelings. ya never know, maybe he'll like the assertiveness
@bakingbabylovett, I've never minded that he watches it. it's just bothersome now because I want the sex to dilate and he father continue watching porn. it was never a big issue for us until now