I'm not normally the one to complain about having my boyfriend around, but right now he is just…

I agree. seems like he expected you to save and get a place for y'all. time for him to take care of his like a man! I HATE seeing posts like this I'm sorry but mama be proud of yourself!!

he expects me to quit my job in two months, have this baby, move an hour away from my family and support to live with him out there. with no job, no child care, no car or rides, and with out a set place to live, although he expects me to find us a place and honestly...I don't think I'm willing or ready to relinquish control like that.

Keep it up super momma

if you guys didn't agree to "combine" or "share" your funds, then no he has no place or right to tell you what to do with your money. for us, my fiancee is the one who works while I stay home, he doesn't expect me to work unless it's absolutely necessary for us, but he gives me control over what goes on with the money he makes as long as bills are paid first. with your boyfriend not having a place to live and couch hopping, he can't tell you what to with your money and therefore you have ever right to be irritated.

honestly, I'd tell him to get his shit together before he even considers living under the same roof as you

You got this girl dont let any man distract u.... im like a proud mama reading this post...GO GIRL💪😘💙

I agree with @arijane316 dude needs to grow up quick fast. he's gonna be a dad, time to be an adult.

thank you ladies! I honestly feel like he expects me to some how work out a plan to make the pieces fall into place and I'm so tired of being the only one who is acting like an adult. if he is serious about us living together as a family, he would have spent the last five months trying to save up money, or hed have tried harder to get a job before I kicked him out. I'm so tired of trying to have a plan that includes him when it puts everything else out of place. I'm supposed to be registering my son for school and worrying about me and mine and instead I've been delaying waiting for him to get it together. to top it off, we've fought twice today. once over him turning the air on because he was hot, when it's below 45 outside, and again because he put his one year old to sleep for the night in our unborn sons stroller and I told him to take him out and put him in the middle of my bed. He doesn't think of things conventionally and it is so infuriating to me. @babiio1 @arijane316 @justmarriedhavingaboy @jaer5683

@icedtia, the sad thing is, he has a one year old and a three year old. he isn't a first time dad.

@babyreeves, just prepare yourself to go it alone honestly. baby will be better off and so will you.

@babyreeves, not trying to sound heartless I just read what i posted. I just think someone who isn't mature enough to grow up when it's time should be shown tough love until they get their act together. I hope everything works out for you hun. ❤

I agree with@icedtia is be ready to do this on your own. looks like he isn't willing to give to a family setting and seems your doing just fine. you don't need a grown baby you have a newborn baby to take care of now. good luck hunny! *hugs*

I don't think you sound heartless, @icedtia. and I appreciate it @justmarriedhavingaboy. I don't think it's a wise decision to leave every thing I have behind for someone who hasn't proven themself once, when I have two children to look out for myself!

@icedtia, @justmarriedhavingaboy

yes that's all I wanted to say. I'm sure he's a good person but there's a difference between meaning well and doing well if you know what I mean. I hope it all works out. I think your doing the right thing by making sure you're taken care of before just up and leaving everything you have going. under different circumstances I'd say hell ya but I'd hate to see you screwed. that's all @babyreeves