I'm gonna go all ape shit on my fucking mom!! Omfg!!! Like she's obviously my babysitter when I'm…

you can't make someone get a shot that they don't want. find a different babysitter or daycare

I'm sorry not to sound mean and or not totally get what you're saying but the way you say your mom is your babysitter is like she has no choice in the matter.

It's MY FUCKING MOTHER! she should obey what I am asking for her grandchilds HEALTH!!

No she didn't give me the choice! she told me that my kid won't be in daycare! she said she was watching him

we get that but again she's your mother not you slave or your servant and if she doesn't want to do something she doesn't have to.

you live under her roof right?

so if she wanted to she could say no then make you leave for disrespecting her just saying treat people they way you want to be treated especially your mother

Wow. If I treated my mother like that I would be out on the streets. She has no obligation to "obey" you. If you require people to get that shot to be around your child, and she doesn't want to, looks like you need to make some other arrangements!

omg!! she could have been a little nicer and not told me to screw off!!

Girl me too after I got slapped in the mouth Lord help I would never disrespect my mom that way. im under her roof and she's doing what she can to help me and my baby girl!!

@babymay2016

Well you guys try dealing g with how she treats me and then she why I ask her to obey one thing. my grandma even says she has to. @noemysmom

then move out. if it's so terrible get your own place then you don't have to deal with being mistreated

and make new arrangements

Yeah that wasn't the nicest thing, but with you saying that she "obviously" is your baby sitter and that she should obey you and shit, if you were my daughter I would have said WAY worse than that 😂 girl I'm 21 and I'm living in my mothers house for the first couple months. She is doing you a favor by providing you a place to stay! She doesn't even owe you that. You are about to be a mother yourself and you should really rethink your attitude before you don't have a place to stay. She don't owe you nothin'! You're the one who decided to be a mother and you should really act like it. Respecting your OWN mother would be a great step.

Seems like a terrible cycle that you should break then. Your mother doesn't respect her mother, and you don't respect yours either. I can see how your child would be the same way. I mean what momma says goes... If you don't like it, make your own way. I don't agree with the way my mother keeps her house dirty, doesn't cook, and the way she raises my brothers. I also don't agree with the way she emotionally abuses me. But I don't say anything because I live in HER house. I honestly live in terrible conditions here, but that's why I have a plan to get me and my son out of here ASAP. She gives me a place to LIVE. I would never complain about that or tell her what to do. I don't like it, so I'm moving out. And I definitely don't threaten the fact I'm moving out. It's not gonna hurt your moms feelings any that you want to be somewhere else LOL I be happy not to listen to my daughter tell me what to do in my own house. Helllll

these ladies are right. especially @babymay2016 she does not need to get the tdap shot anyways unless your state requires it. no one in my family got it when my nephew was born and he has been just fine around them. my mother babysits him 6 days a week. your mother doesn't have to do a damn thing for you. she brought you into this world, it is YOU who owes HER. I may complain about my mother sometimes but I would never disrespect her the way you seem to be doing yours.

I asked her I wasn't demanding! and fyi I am aginst abortions so with that being said I'm not saying anymore

@arijane316, Right. I don't agree with a LOT of things my mother does. But I surely don't disrespect her in her own home. If you don't like what someone else is doing then you make your own way out. But nobody is responsible for your child except for you. My mom SAID she's gonna be watching my son for me too, but doesn't want to do the things I want for my son. So she will motnbe watching

So she will not be watching him, point blank. No argument about it.

Nobody said anything about abortions.......? What??

ha... if I said some shit like that to my mom, my ass would be knocked out on the ground... it doesn't matter how rude she is to you, you live in HER house... Have some respect.

Well that's the only person I have as his father is not in the picture!

Yea no one said anything about abortions..girl get your head on straight. and also you said in your post that you "TOLD HER" she had to get the shot. how is that asking her in any way, shape, or form? TELLING her she needs to do something is disrespectful and completely uncalled for. and she had every right to tell you to screw off for that. she is your mother. she can say whatever she pleases to you

In my opinion if you're going to have a child, then you should be entirely prepared to do it alone if you have to. You don't need other people to help you raise your child. My baby's father is not in the picture either, but I love my son and not even for a second do I question needing his help. Its great to have help, but its not the only option. It seems pretty stupid to be being rude to the only person that you have then? My mother is one of the only people I have to, and if I don't agree with her, I will be doing it without her. I am prepared for anything, because I love my son and I will do whatever it takes. Even if that was being COMPLETELY alone. People do it all the time. You just have to want it. But if you are relying on someone else's help, it seems silly to act like THAT towards them. Girl say thank you or something. She doesn't owe you anything.

whooping cough is no joke when it comes to babies. my opinion is if someone is around your baby a lot they should have the shot.

I'm confused no one ever mentioned abortions.

@noemysmom, I am just guessing that she was referring to me saying that it sounds like a terrible cycle that she should break, and make a way for herself. What I was meaning was to not be disrespectful and in turn not teach her baby to be disrespectful.. didn't mention abortion and I am also entirely against that. But to each their own???

@icedtia, Thanks!