I need advice mommies..
please no bashing..
I have to stop breastfeeding do to allergies that my baby has and put him on formula. I need to know how to safely make my milk supply go away..
before anyone says "breast is best" and things like that.. I'm doing what is best for my baby and it's one of the hardest things I've had to do.
I've heard putting cabbage leaves in your bra helps.
aww that sucks. but you got to do what is best for you and baby. and you get to be the decision maker.
first off its not going to be fun if your in full swing. engorgement on the way. keep them bound and dont relieve in shower even when you want to. take an allergy medication like um benadryl or something with antihistamine. it will help dry you out. wish you and baby well. xo

My baby father has some things on his mind. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Any suggestions on what I should do?

Best thing I can do for my baby boy. #Breastmilk
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
cabbage leaves. Dries them right up.