I need a vent session so bare with me! I'm so overly pissed off its not funny, yes I've cooled down…
I need a vent session so bare with me! I'm so overly pissed off its not funny, yes I've cooled down since this has happened but it still seems to push my buttons just to think about it... My adoptive parents have always taken care of me and have helped me when needed but they hate and I mean hate with a capital H my husband because he's not my ex fiancée.... And this time they fcking screwed us on purpose! Like seriously screwed us over. Here's how... My "dad" cosigned and paid for 3 months rent in our time of need, now it's our turn to pay and where we are staying is temporary living, so you can pay for the day, week, or month. Well the hubby and I have been using our money to fix my car so it would stay running well guess we shouldn't have since we talked to our landlord and he said that my "dad" said we are ONLY paying by the MONTH and nothing less.... What the frick! What if we weren't staying the whole month?! Hypothetically speaking that is! We even told the landlord what we could pay and he told us either have all my money or get out...... I'm just pissed now.... My "dad" told the landlord month only on purpose so they could watch my husband fail and so I would have to move back home with out him and just bad mouth him and(unknowingly) put me back In a depression.... I seriously am about to go insane... The last thing I want to do is move into my parents without my baby's father my husband and have no help with baby what's so ever..... I'm seriously in a loss of words..... I just can't believe what's happening right now....
Sorry for my rant/vent I just can't believe this.... Of all things considered why put us down so low that you'd try to take our love away from each other...
missing230user·
wowww. they are really miserable people for putting you guys through all of this. i hope you two can work everything out together without having to rely on them bc that's terrible 😥
missy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
That's not right as much as they don't like him they need to understand by doing stuff like that not only hurts him but you also and puts unnecessary stress on you while pregnant which you don't need I would really have a talk with them and try to get them to see that.
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@mango44, @missytoyou thanks ladies I'm seriously still in disbelief.... I'm trying to stay positive as I can, will probably end up texting my "mom" in the morning saying that I need to borrow the van so I can move her grandsons belongs back over since we were told full rent or get out thanks to dads cosigner deal.
missing230user·
you guys can't get your own place instead of moving back with them?
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@mango44, we were waiting on our taxes to do so but idk when they will be in :(
missing230user·
pray on it love. God will cover you both and provide your every need when the timing is right. and they can stick that bs that they're on where the sun doesn't shine 😉
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@mango44, 😇 like I said im trying to stay as positive as possible. My plan is to text my "mom" in the morning and make it sound like it there fault so maybe just maybe my husband will be able to come with and stay with me instead of either in the streets or his dad's house:/ that or tell the landlord we can pay what we can -.- it's just a pain to get thru to them anymore
missing230user·
yeahh, i understand smh.
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@mango44, I hate to say it but I rather sleep in my car then go back home. Of course I won't but we will see what happens
shaniya·
Мама сына (5 лет)
so ur dad cosigned and paid 3 months, and you both didn't save? now it's time to pay and ur mad. I'm sorry I'm kinda confused 😕 I'm grateful if either one of my parents pay a dime.
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@shynadrian4ever, I'm not mad that it's our turn to pay I'm mad that nobody told us we had to pay monthly ONLY. If we knew that we would have saved up more then what we have. Instead of putting it towards our car and fixing my engine, hoses, and radiator.
shaniya·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Oh OK I see, I'm was so lost. I thought most places you have to pay monthly. hope things get better... when 1 door closes another one opens is what I keep in mind.. stay strong
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@shynadrian4ever, where we stay is temporary living, which most people/families who stay here are military so they let people pay by day/week/or month. Which we were looking into a house so we were going to pay what we saved which was half a month but since nobody said monthly only to us we didn't save enough