anyone else having drama with the father of their baby? mine has been an absolute pain saying he wants to see the baby but also says him quitting drugs just isn't an option... but im still a bitch for saying he can't take the baby if he's high. clearly I can see what's more important.
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You know, it is rough sometimes, but worth every struggle. I go without alot of time, to give more to my boys, but I wouldn't change it for the world. I have full legal custody of my boys, and if I don't give any information on my little ones father I will have full custody of her as well. Hang in there @emmailese it will be hard but you can do it. every time you look at your little one you will know you did the right thing.
Idk how you do it im nervous enough as it is to be a single mom of 1. but Ik it's what's best for the both the baby and I so it makes it 100% easier. @cowgirlffa90
@emmailese I am a single mom of 2 boys, so I know I can do it with 3. It isn't worth the fight when it is like that. I know I am better off, and my baby is as well.
That's exactly why I'm divorcing the father. between the drugs and us having an extremely toxic relationship as it is it just wouldn't be a good idea to have the baby around that.
my little one's father wants nothing to do with the baby. He wanted me to get an abortion, when I refused he broke up with me. He does not want anything to do with the baby. He has 2 kids with an ex and he is trying to get custody of them, and says if he has to pay for a 3rd baby he won't be able to fight for the 2 he has. It's a cop out really. I don't need him in my life, and my baby doesn't need him either.
I dont usually stress about it but I'm still really close to my in laws and if for some reason he hears I'm in town with them hell show up which is unfortunate because he never talks to his family otherwise. but thank you very much @babymay2016
I hope that you get it figured out soon. My baby's father is back and forth constantly and will not stop doing drugs and getting arrested. It was very hard for me to separate myself from him, and not have too much hope that he will change, but it was absolutely necessary for the health of my son. I was stressed to the point of no return and that is no good for anyone, especially my little one. You'll be in my prayers 😊 its hard but its worth it for sure!! I hope everything works out smoothly. Nobody should have to stress period, but especially while carrying a sweet little baby.
but if he can't get those hell do just about anything he can get his hands on @jessilee318
really? he is refusing to quit? doesn't even want to try? what is he hooked on if you don't mind my asking...
oh I don't have an option... we're still legally married unfortunately. but that should be ending next week hopefully @babymay2016
YES, exactly to the T. But hey momma, it's not worth the stress on you or baby! I can tell you it feels so so so so much better just to not even talk to him or worry about him anymore. He's gonna do what he's gonna do and you just have to do what you have to do for your baby.
damn that awful @emmailese my baby's father was hooked on meth when we first got together. that stuff is a monster and I don't blame you a bit not wanting the baby around him like that. he could get violent or be so sleep deprived he could hurt the baby and not even mean to :( I am so sorry girl. best of luck to you.