This is petty... But my MIL keeps saying she just "knows" my daughter will come on the 7th. I really hope she doesn't just because I don't need her taking credit for the rest of our lives. It's annoying enough that she is always saying she knew she was a girl before we found out, but didn't want to say anything because "it would ruin the surprise." This is my pregnancy. This is my daughter. We already don't get along, and this is making it a lot worse.
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Oh my god. And she doesn't take the hint that you don't like that and she needs to stop?! I feel frustrated for you!! Haha @baby1004
@autumn, it has got a little better since we moved out but she moved literally across the street from us and comes over and tells my son come on let's go home...I'm like he is home and she just gives me a look..I'm pregnant with my second and she had the nerve to tell me if you have twins your giving me one you can't take care of two....I was like your bat shit crazy if you think I'm giving you my child. Your nuts hahaha
No need to apologize. I rant about that woman every chance I get haha. That sounds so annoying though. I told my MIL she's not coming into the room until quite a while after. She was under the impression she was going to act as my midwife during it. There's no freaking way I would allow that. We were living with my mother in law for a little while too and I made sure we moved out before the baby came because I did not need her breathing down my neck. So, I get where you're coming from. @baby1004
Ugh I hated absolutely hated my MIL when j was pregnant with my first. We lived with her so she would always try and tell me what to eat and what to wear when I was pregnant come delivery day she tried to tell my husband she was going back in the operating room with me not him. I was like the hell you are lady he's going your not. She wasn't happy about it but oh well. After he was born my husband was so in love he was asking the nurses so many question and how to do the "burrito" hahaha they showed him. When we got to our Room and everyone came in of course they all wanted to check him out and look at his feet lol. He had to be changed and bundled so my husband was excited to change his first diaper but he was taking a lol to long and baby started to cry so his mom literally pushed him aside and was like just let me do it you don't know what your doing. He got so mad and told her off and was like how are we going to learn if you keep jumping in. This is our child we need to figure it out for ourselves. She got mad walked out the room crying and his brothers had to calm him down he told them she needs to stop trying to control everything or I'm kicking her out the room.....sorry for rant but I've had horrible fights with this woman hahaha
ahhh okay. yeah it gets hard. I wish you the best and strength to deal with her.
yeah I try!!! but my fiance decided he was going to pass out and I was minutes from delivering so my mil and nurse were the only ones there til the nurse started screaming for the pediatric nurse to help when she realized my daughter wasn't waiting for a doctor to show up! @aydensmommy2016
The moment I seen that look I would have looked at her and said it fucking hurts I'm not going to apologize it's my labor. Then of she tried to leave just start crying and say your going to make me deliver by myself? it would have made her feel bad and glad at the same time and forget about the fact that you cussed. I've delt with people like her beforw...you just have to work around them. @autumnrae
@aydensmommy2016, I try to be so nice to my mil but omg if I even say stupid I get looks like omg your horrible! I let out an f bomb mid contraction when they told me my doctor was 15 minutes away while I was crowning and HAD to push and she gasp and I got a your going to hell look.... I would have kicked her out if she wasn't helping me deliver!!
I feel bad because I'm friends with my mil...mostly because I feel bad for her and she crazy and don't want on her bad side, she's also extremely sick and could pass at anytime(by her own fault for popping pills and doing drugs). With me though it's mostly everyone else I don't like they will always try to claim my baby and I'm like you had no part in making him or growing him so he is not your baby, the only one I let say my children are theirs is my oldest sister because she helped raise my daughter the firat give months and she want have her own naturally sadly....but no one else no matter who they are. @autumnrae I'm how you feel about the tats and cursing, my moms not a Mormon but hates when I get a new fat or cuz saying I need to calm down with it all.
I know I was like ummm yeah not yours go away! She hates me anyway since she's very Mormon and I got pregnant out of wedlock, have tattoos, and sometimes curse! and my hubbys a mommas boy so he gets mad whenever I offend her!!! @autumn
Haha he shouldn't have gotten mad! It is your baby and his baby! That's it. To everyone else, it's either grandkid, nephew, etc.. But we're the only ones that should get to say "my baby" @autumnrae
@autumn, I would be so irritated if I had to put up with that 😫
Right?! She acts like she's so prophetic. She'd really be on her high horse if I ended up going into labor on the 7th. Even then... My baby could be here any day, that doesn't mean she's prophetic lol that's just how it works. So dumb @crazytoast
lol I'm the same way!!! my mil found out I was pregnant and said yay! I'm so excited for OUR baby... my hubby got mad when I rudely said MY baby
Haha how annoying. Most of the time, it would be a lot better if people would just keep their mouths shut @mrs.japrabbit
I'd be like ummmm it's not difficult to guess the gender, there's two options lol 😒
No need to apologize, I understand how it feels to need to vent! It's so annoying when people do this stuff. I really don't want to hear "I told you so" or someone literally taking credit for her due date for the rest of my life. Basically, people suck haha @aydensmommy2016
On my top list of pregnancy pet peeves lol. That and when people tell me my peeing will only get worse the farther along I get. Someone laughed at me when I told them I had to pee and I turned around and told her I have kidney and bladder problems so the fact that I pee all the time anyway isn't anything new. It made her feel bad lol
I feel you on that my best friends mom and dad do the same shit saying that they have dreams or just a feeling. With my daughter she kept telling me I was having a girl and told me when id have her....to this day she won't let it go. Now her husband keeps saying I told you so because he said we are having a boy, all because at our wedding he could have swore we had a little not running around and it wasnt just my daughter, telling me I had a glow because I was pregnant....no honey it was because I was getting married to my highscoll love and I got the suprise of my father walking me down the aisle. sorry it's so long. but I feel your pain and annoyance.
Oh god how annoying. I hate when other people call my baby theirs! It makes my skin crawl haha. People just don't understand boundaries. @mrs.japrabbit
Oh I get it. If you ever need to rant I'll rant with you. My father told me that he's going to have his friends sit outside of my apartment and not let any one inside unless it's him and my step mom cause no one else gets to see "his" baby. I about lost my shit on him. I feel your pain
I hope so too hahah. Or before because I'm uncomfortable and impatient. But seriously... She's texting me saying that my daughter is connecting with her right now telling her she's coming on the 7th. It's just so annoying. My daughter would not be connecting with her. My MIL has two daughters of her own that have children, but she needs to realize that I'm not her daughter and this grandkid is going to be A LOT different than her others. Sorry, I had to rant. I'm so frustrated and done with this woman haha. @mrs.japrabbit
I hope she comes a day late just so you can rub it in her face lol. It's not petty. It's your body and your baby
@autumn, no she doesn't this lady is nuts she will never change. I've just learned to keep my distance as much as I can and lucky for me my husband stays away from her more than I do. I have to force him to call or go over hahaha.