I'M SO FREAKING LIVID!! RANT ABOUT "SISTER IN LAW"!!! πΏπ π‘
So it's late, my sons bed time routine (solids, bath, milk, story) is at around 8. We couldn't do it like usual because I had to leave at 8:30PM to go pick up my Hubby's sister and his nephew from the airport and bring my son along since hubby was already asleep (he goes to work at 4AM). So as soon as they get in the car my son starts fussing a little, everyon's on their phone's quiet, I'm talking to my baby a little to try to soothe him but it doesn't work so I ask Hubby's nephew to give him his pacifier, he says he can't find it.. My baby starts getting worse then starts crying, I'm doing the best I can to soothe him, mind you I'M DRIVING! Everyone's still silent , unaffected by Lorenzo's cries until suddenly my SIL opens her mouth and decides to talk about how people in the South are so much nicer than people in California. She goes "you know what I learned?" and I'm thinking IDGAF right now! She continues about southern hospitality.. then her son brings up Carl's Jr and it's whole fucking history and that in Texas it's called Hardy's.. How fucking fascinating and fabulous, tell me more! So they're just talking over my poor 6 month old who's tired and crying and no one tries to soothe him!!!!!! My SIL could've turned around and talked to him or find his pacifier, rub his head, something!! I know my son would've responded to that, he's like me he doesn't like being ignored especially when he's tired like that. And Hubby's nephew was in the back sitting right next to him and did NOTHING! I'm stressed because my poor baby is crying and no one is doing anything about it so I'm trying to get home ASAP so these people can get out of my car, go home and I can attend to my baby and put him to sleep. Then once we are around the corner of my house she asks her son "are you sure you can't find his pacifier" to which he replies "no trust me if I could I would".. then she tells my son "it's ok papas" and so I say "it's fine we're already here" I'm usually bubbly and talkative but I was quiet when I wasn't trying to soothe my baby so I'm sure they could tell I was upset, especially after i said that. I'm sorry and honestly don't care if anyone reads this or not just have to get my frustration out since I have no one I can tell at this moment. I'm not a confrontational person at all!! but I'm so surprised I was able to keep my cool in that situation because trust me I wanted to snap SO bad, that's my baby, don't mess with me when is comes to my baby!! Ugh π‘
THE ONLY REASON I DIDNT LOSE MY SHIT is because I didn't want to cause drama and get anyone else in his family involved cuz that 100% would've happened. I'm still pissed but I got my sweet baby to sleep, he fell asleep right when I held him in my arms so I'm having a beer right now. I don't drink but I'm 21 now and I need this beer damn it!
when I said " its fine we're already home" I had an attitude and kind of cut her off as she finally said something to my son , I couldn't believe she decided to say something to my baby as we are seconds away from my house I was like really? she's the kind of person that's all about HERSELF! I was in a rollover car accident July 2014 she came with my MIL to see me as I was in the hospital I had a concussion and was coming in and out of consciousness but I remember her standing there looking annoyed then being like "I'm going to the cafeteria" and she had just got there. Anyway she's a nice person BUT shes EXTREMELY SELF CENTERED! The only reason she told asked her son about the pacifier is because she was getting annoyed I'm sure.@charlotte302,
lol you enjoy that beer and relax you did good mama I understand the not wanting any drama over it well glad you could vent and get out your frustrations you go enjoy that baby and have a good night @mariceladez