I need advice...my boyfriend has a 7 year old son, since I've been a part of his life for so long me and my bf consider me his stepmother. and he absolutely won't listen to me. I try to explain why he's getting in trouble so he knows what to do about it to change before he does, and he ends up crying to my bfs mom. I can be watching something on TV while folding laundry and he goes and tells her that he don't like it. i am so nice to him and treat him as my own and yet he turns around and says he hates me. I try to talk to my bf about it and he gets frustrated because his son goes and tells my bfs mom every little thing including personal stuff that me and my bf talk about. what should I do??? HELP