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Let me start by saying I feel beyond blessed to be pregnant. My husband and I lost our last baby and this baby feels like an absolute miracle and that's why we aren't finding out the sex. We just want a healthy baby! With that said I'm still human! I've been sick recently due to not sleeping and it's been taking a toll on me. I cried all day today. I feel lonely. No friends ask me to do anything anymore and one of my best friends planned a whole trip (that I thought I was joining on) without me and they leave for Ireland today and I think that's why I'm so down. It's just hitting me and I think sleep deprivation just made the emotions intensified. I even feel like my mom hasn't been around. My sister just had her third baby 5 weeks ago and she's always there and I understand why. Helping do their kitchen back drop and curtains and watching the kids and she hasn't even seen my nursery yet. I registered alone and it was a sad feeling. Am I being selfish- probably but I can't help that it makes me feel sad inside and I hve no one to talk to this about. I don't want to say it to my husband because he's amazing and tries to do everything for me. I just needed to vent and this seems like my only place to do so. Sorry for the long post.
01.02.2016
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lmullan33
lmullan33
That's true. I just had to get it off my chest so it didn't consume me. All my friends, my mom and sister do so much for me so I would hate to hurt anyone's feelings saying this to them so I just needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for your advice to! It really helps having someone's point of view that's outside the situation.
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mommyto3boys
mommyto3boys
your not being selfish, you can't help how you feel. Maybe you need to express those concerns to your friends/sister. Sometimes with being pregnant people assume you can't or don't want to do certain activities almost like it's a handicap. I feel like if they truly care for you which I think they do they will make efforts to include you. Also you should just say hey you want to come help me with my registry etc... trying including them and see how that works as well
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