It's hard being a single first time mom 🙁 I'm always having a hard time deciding whether I should ask my sons father to be there when the baby is born or not . I really want him to be there just so he can have this once in a lifetime experience but it makes me sad to think he might not be there 😔

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elizabeth·Мама дочки-младенца

hope it goes as well for you too

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@babylizz20, I think it's important for the dads to be involved ..but yeah like you said actions do speak louder ..I really hope it all works out for you 💗

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elizabeth·Мама дочки-младенца

yeah he does,my family is giving me a hard time thoe but he tell me he wants to be involved and i told him actions speak louder then words

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Sarah·Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)

Just remember you didn't make that baby alone. You shouldn't have to support him or her alone. good luck girl.

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@babylizz20, awe really ? I hope they support us . Does your partner talk to you about the baby ?

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elizabeth·Мама дочки-младенца

i knw what u feel girl im almost due and going through the same problem

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@carlismommy12, nah I won't force him . When I found out I was pregnant I told him that I'm not going to force him to be part of his child's life ..we didn't speak for a long time til he texted me on New Years & told me that he'd like to be here for the baby shower but idk I have doubts cause he lives in San Diego & he doesn't have his car rn . So that's why I'm stressed out 😞

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@paigemay123, yeah I know , I hope he makes the right choice .

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Sarah·Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)

Dont even try to force him. My daughters dad missed it and regrets it to this day. We co parent but aren't together. talk to him about it now and when you go into labor call him. that's all you can do.

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paigemay123·Мама сына (1 год)

tell him you'd like for him to be there but that is his choice in leave it up to him

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@carlismommy12, that's what I plan to do , I know I can't force him to be there but I just want to have a talk with him about it . It truly is a once in a lifetime moment & he will definitely miss out on it if he's not there .

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乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·В ожидании первенца

@paigemay123, he said yeah but idk I don't believe him :/

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Sarah·Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)

Give him the opportunity and let him choose I guess. if he doesn't its seriously his loss. That's a moment you can't get back.

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paigemay123·Мама сына (1 год)

does he want to be there?

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Analucia·В ожидании первенца

Your not the only one

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