It's hard being a single first time mom 🙁 I'm always having a hard time deciding whether I should ask my sons father to be there when the baby is born or not . I really want him to be there just so he can have this once in a lifetime experience but it makes me sad to think he might not be there 😔
@babylizz20, I think it's important for the dads to be involved ..but yeah like you said actions do speak louder ..I really hope it all works out for you 💗
yeah he does,my family is giving me a hard time thoe but he tell me he wants to be involved and i told him actions speak louder then words
Just remember you didn't make that baby alone. You shouldn't have to support him or her alone. good luck girl.
@babylizz20, awe really ? I hope they support us . Does your partner talk to you about the baby ?
@carlismommy12, nah I won't force him . When I found out I was pregnant I told him that I'm not going to force him to be part of his child's life ..we didn't speak for a long time til he texted me on New Years & told me that he'd like to be here for the baby shower but idk I have doubts cause he lives in San Diego & he doesn't have his car rn . So that's why I'm stressed out 😞
Dont even try to force him. My daughters dad missed it and regrets it to this day. We co parent but aren't together. talk to him about it now and when you go into labor call him. that's all you can do.
tell him you'd like for him to be there but that is his choice in leave it up to him
@carlismommy12, that's what I plan to do , I know I can't force him to be there but I just want to have a talk with him about it . It truly is a once in a lifetime moment & he will definitely miss out on it if he's not there .
Give him the opportunity and let him choose I guess. if he doesn't its seriously his loss. That's a moment you can't get back.
hope it goes as well for you too