@justmarriedhavingaboy, you are NOT an obgyn with 40 years of experience or a perinatologist with 30. both said that there is absolutely no safe part of pregnancy. even my current midwife says the same. your information is not true. throwing offhanded stabs my way will get you nowhere. using passive aggressive language also won't. act like an adult and accept that your information is not correct.
complications can arise hunny but USUALLY. a healthy woman with a healthy pregnancy is alright past 12 weeks. you can loose them after that but chances go down significantly after 12 weeks. you can ask your ob a d shell confirm this. my sister is an obgyn as well as a doctor and has been doing this for 10 years. my bf is also a midwife. 😀 take care of yourself don't worry so much about this is all I'm saying
@lakilucid, listen sweetie she asked a question I answered with fact. you have the right to disagree with me hunny but try and get some sleep you seem a little edgy. this isn't a competition good night 👋😉
@justmarriedhavingaboy, pretty sure I know a lot with 7 kids. that's irrelevant. I stated facts. you stated your personal experience. unless you went to school like my obgyns and perinatologists did who state there is no safe point then I wouldn't be spreading false information.
@auroramariesmommy, it can happen at any point but most people by week 12 is usually safe. so I wouldn't fret too much. concentrate on that little bundle being in your arms instead 😀 that's all I'm saying. ask your ob they'll agree with me 😉
@justmarriedhavingaboy, its more common than you think. even my obgyn said there is no safe point in pregnancy. so no there isn't a point where one shouldn't worry. @auroramariesmommy thank you! so far so good. just have an infection and waiting in RX to be filled.
I do have that fear bc last year I lost my baby at 6wks and I am almost 12 wks pregnant with this one. I dont have much of a bond yet but I know when I'm in the clear and all the other good news. I will be more at ease.
@lakilucid, I said USUALLY you're pretty safe past 12 weeks. yes that is true. sometimes things happen with certain situations like my 1st was 9 days overdue 2nd was 32 weeks and third was 34. I also lost one at 16 weeks but I also have some issues USUALLY you're safe after 12 weeks
Yes I do because I lost a baby prior to the this one as well. My fear is that I would have another still birth, so all I can do is leave it in gods hands.
my baby is born, and I still have fears of losing her. because SIDS, I HAVE to have her sleeping near me at all times, if she even makes a sound I wake up instantly, if I can't see her I freak out. we have a bassinet that she sleeps in by me, and we have the baby monitor on her, and I have the app open on my phone to watch her until I fall asleep lolol.
I'm just an anxious new mommy. she's almost a month old and I'm slowly breaking the habbit of not hawking over her. she's my little princess and it would kill me if something happened to her..
@justmarriedhavingaboy, not true. I lost a baby at 14 weeks. I have five angels. one living toddler who was born at 32 weeks. currently almost 14 weeks again... the stress is unreal.