I don't understand some ladies that, take there kids always from a man just because he doesn't wanna be with you anymore, its not the kids fault! if my man one days decide he no longer wants to be with me I will never do that to him I will be a grown woman and work this things out so his able to see his kids!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
abusive father If a man is abusive to the mother of his child does that mean he will be abusive to the children? Can he be a good father and an abusive spouse?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Fuck man, my boyfriend's car flipped over on the highway. He had me connected to his speaker in his car and I just heard him screaming and the car flipping over.. He blacked out.. I called him and he seems okay but fuck man. I heard everything. I thought he died.. He's almost gotten ran off the road in Abilene 3 times already and now this..
How yu gonna argue with me because i find child support stupid af if the father takes his child has a roof over his head and food in his fridge when he has the kid why does he need to pay you so you have a roof over your head and your bills are paid isnt that your job as a mother. Not fair that a man has to make sure he has everything for himself and his baby at his place and take care of his baby mommas "bills". Smh. To each its own but to argue with me about my opinion. Tf get out my face with that bullshit.
twinmamma2015·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I think a lot depends on the situation....
Meka·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего
it does depend on the situation my sons father was dating a coke head so no he could not be around my son with her but once he married his wife I let him go spend summers with him because she's a good lady I am all for co-parenting hell give me a break lol
1534·
Мама сына (1 год)
okay, that's understandable! I wouldn't either @twinmamma2015 @supermommy31082
twinmamma2015·
Мама двоих (младенец)
like I feel bad cuz my brothers ex wife n my other brothers daughters mom cuz they use their kids against my brothers and they're not bad guys. if they were I'd tell it like it is lol but my boys "dad" became violent n aggressive when I got prego. but if there isn't anything wrong with the dad I totally agree
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
left my ex husband back in 2010 after my son passed away in '09& my mother in '10..he pretty much left me alone when I needed him the most..he begged and cried I didn't take the kids from him and I really didn't still haven't..but unfortunately he's forgotten his role and responsibilities as a father..over these past6-7 Years he's seen them I want to say at the most a total of a month if possible..really upsets me because my children asked about him so much in the beginning it would kill me still does whenever they do ask@1130nnne
1534·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinmamma2015, if the guy is good and has a job and is stable why hurt the guy with taking the kids always, there some moms that are crazy and just because the guy doesn't want to be with you she does that I know a girl that does that she's crazy and the guy is good but she's hurt that he left her @twinmamma2015
twinmamma2015·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yeah that's just childish when they do that