I'm nobody to judge someone, because I can imagine how hard it must of been, my mom was with my dad for 15years, he was bad to my mom, I been with a guy that wouldn't hit me but he cheat and use me!!
I stayed with my ex husband for five years. It is a hard thing to get away from. He was my high school sweetheart, my first love, first everything. The father of my first son. And leaving him took everything in me. It broke something inside of me, but I knew it was in the best interest for my son to get out before he hurt him too, or killed me. Its been almost two and a half years now.