I know this isn't the case for everyone but does anyone else in their pregnancy get somewhat offended/irritated when people say, "omg your so tiny!" I don't quite know what to say back but deep down I want to throat punch them.... I will be 34 weeks tomorrow and still not as big as most apparently would expect, but I take after my mother. She was smaller when expecting with all 3 of her children. People just make me feel shitty about being small even though my little baby is right on track health and weight wise!
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I'm on the opposite side of this..I'm sick of everyone telling me how huge i am:(
I've had that happen before too. People can be cruel without even realizing it. I always try and think positive and not worry what they're saying but it sucks when it's everyone at work every single time they see you. Plus their judgements make me feel like oh ok, because I'm "so tiny" that means I don't feel all the pregnancy symptoms etc... Not true a bit.
I tiny myself an get asked are you really pregnate cause of how small I am
Yes. a doctor told me "you're so tiny". wasn't my OB or PCP. and doesn't even know how big my babies get. it feels like they're judging you
Very understandable @tayek I get sensitive about it too and thats my problem too. I'm already on the smaller side, let alone losing 30 lbs form being sooo sick my first trimester, started gaining weight back and now I'm feeling sick again... No good. But very irritating in regards to others remarks because it almost makes me feel I'm doing something wrong. But I can't help my body size.
I love when ppl tell me thay bc it makes me happy. I hate when ppl tell me I swelled up or something like that
I do. I wanted a GIANT bump and being on the smaller side, coupled with my hyperemesis & having only certain things I can eat without being sick, makes me kinda sensitive about it.
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It's funny because I feel the same exact way and my mom was the same exact way with all three of her children so I won't show much either! I'm right there with you !