its not your fault in any way...its very common to have a miscarriage early in pregnancy. aftre my husband and i got married we tried for a baby but it took almost 2 years for me to get pregnant. ..and at 7 weeks i miscarried....then my 2nd pregnancy gave us a now 4 years old son, and a 3rd gave me a now 3 years old daughter..both premature. then last year i was pregnant with our 2nd baby girl, who was born sleeping at 20 weeks...i had many complications and I was at the hospital trying to stop labor and they put on a cerclage to keep her inside longer..i had all my hopes up...and few hours after the cerclage, they couldn't find her heartbeat...i was in soo much pain from everything and then i was told she was no longer alive...the hardest day of my life and i felt like nobody could understand expect for my mother. i was in depression and from that experience i found who my real friends were and who was REALLY my family..i got away from everyone except from my parents, kids, and my brother and some family from my husband. .. up to this day i still dont talk to anyone else and i still cant move on...but nobody will ever understand what I went through...and the pain i felt and still feel..at first i had many bad moments with my husband because we were invited to a birthday party by his sister in less than a month after my stillbirth n i said no, but he was all ready moving on and thought i should too...or visiting family. ...im glad he later understood i needed my time to heal, that it was not going to be as fast as him and he gave me my space and time. Im now 15 weeks pregnant...it was a twin pregnancy but one didn't made it past 12 weeks...and on Friday at the hospital after very heavy bleeding i was told i have placenta previa....im scared of losing my remaining baby...i would not be able to take it..i cant go through it once again. what im trying to say is: nobody will understand your pain of losing your baby...not even your husband. only you....and you take all the time you need to grieve and heal...dont let ppl hurry you or tell you to move on...if they cant understand get away until you feel better. you must take all the time you need to grieve ...theres no specific time or limit. im soo sorry for your loss....im here if you would like to talk.

I'm so sorry. I've lost 3, including my son late in my 2nd trimester. It's not something you just "get over" and it most certainly was NOT your fault! Cleaning doesn't make you miscarry! It sounds as if your family needs to learn about having some sensitivity. I would personally tell everyone to fuck off! Stand up for yourself and your baby, and then take time to heal by yourself if no one gets it. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss, it will take more than a couple weeks or months to grieve. 💕