my hubby is saying he wants his exes love back well that put a damper on our marriage I'm literally…

what the hell?

what do I do to keep my marriage together @hermommy

I'm probably not the best one to talk to about that... the first time I found out my exhusband cheated I filed for divorce, but honestly talk to him. see where your marriage lies and if y'all are still in love, suggest counseling @gracie133

i just don't get him ugggh its like this war has changed my sweet sensitive hubby against me and our baby @hermommy

does he have PTSD? that could be an issue@gracie133

I want it to work out for our princess @hermommy

I gave no clue he us still over there but he saw his best friend get killed so I would say yes

Yea if my husband ever spoke of an ex that like, especially out loud to my face, I would leave and send him papers. That's so disrespectful and shows where his mind is at. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I'd be gone ✌🏼

I love him and it is forbidden to get a divorce in our religion

yeah, get him to a counselor he doesn't mean that mostlikly PTSD isn't something to play with, he's probably seriously depressed especially seeing what he's seen. Do the correct thing and get him help stand by his side and let him know you aren't going down without a fight@gracie133

how can I when he is deployed they didn't send him home but when he gets home I will even though he hates counseling and he knows I won't go down without a fight o was raised that way but it still hurt when he said it on Skype @hermommy

If he wants to go let him. You can't force someone to be with you if they don't want to be. It may be that he thinks the grass is greener on the other side but stuff like that never works out. Talk to him and see how long he's had that feeling and how long he's been talking to his ex. And if he still wants to go let him. All the while keep your head high and do what you have to do to make sure you and your family are taken care of. I'm not married so I'm not one to talk to but this is my opinion.

he has to talk to his ex they have a 3 year old son he knows what she would do to him if he went back to her to and she is remarried and doesn't love him anymore but j think it's just the PTSD talking from this damn war

@jellybeanz, I'm just so emotional these days I cry at the drop of a hat

y'all really need to sit down and talk. tell him exactly how you feel and suggest counseling. if he still says he wants his ex slowly stop doing things he expects you to do. you also have to take care of yourself

@jellybeanz, how can I do that and him deployed

@gracie133, so sorry hon. See if he might consider going to see one of their docs to get a psych referral, and try going on base to go to counseling. I'm guessing the stress of the deployment is messing with his head-not that it makes it any easier-but it can help y'all both understand where to go from there. 😞

I will once he comes home he told me this on Skype @mommagotbump16

wait until he gets home to speak over it all. like as soon as y'all get back try to spend quality time & see if its still there.

ok thanks

however y'all communicate with each other

@jocelyn245, they should have access to that stuff there too. If he's showing signs of stress in that way, I'd see if he would start now.

ok ill talk to him and see