So I had my baby shower with family a few weeks ago and one of my friends was begging me to have a baby shower up by us because mine was in west Texas. I told her I didn't want to because I don't know many people up here... Anyway after 3 weeks of begging I finally said ok. She and another friend were to host it. I will call the main one she. She didn't help with anything my friend (which they never met before) was only supposed to help. My friend ended up doing everything for the shower and "she" said she couldn't come to the shower today because her llama got out. So it was me my friend and a co worker..... Plus everyone else that said they were coming cancelled at the last minute. I have decided I no longer like having friends because they always flake out. I go to birthday parties on 4 hours of sleep because I work nights and if I can't make it I still send gifts. It's so frustrating!! I feel bad for my friend who spent all this time and money!!! Rant over.